2013!!!!! January Testers!(140) (40) BFPs! 9 Angels Come find a Buddy today!!!!

[Tower6]

Do you mind me asking What happened? Chemical? Did AF start? Or are you testing neg? Man I am so sorry- if you don't want to answer any of those yet don't worry about it, just curious as to what happened. HUGS TO YOU!!!

 

[kel21]

I'm totally open to any info I can get though- what makes you think that? That would mean I totally missed too aggghh

Sorry Tower! Just by looking at your temps, cd15 looks more like o day to me. Although I see the problem with the bd pattern Your lp would not change though. If you have a 9 day lp, then it will be 9 days whether you o on cd13, cd15 or cd20! The lp only starts counting once you o! Gl and I hope the B6 works for you!

Don't apologize at all- I always appreciate and input wether its what I want to hear or not at times, I'd still prefer any honesty over anything
I don't know what to think of the LP thing because idk how to describe it but my cd being 24-25 is why I say the lp would shorten- because what we've noticed now is that my cycle is 24-25 days wether I O on day 10 or 16 meaning that I don't always get a stretch of lp depending on O. In November I O'd 6 days before my AF. So it started the same day af was due even though O came super super late. Does that make sense? It's not normal but I just mean does how I'm
Describing my fertility issues make sense? Lol

Sorry to hear that. I've always read that the lp is fixed more or less within a couple days! Make sure you take some extra B12 to go along with the B6. Helps your body absorb and use the B6.

 

[Tower6]

Oh really? I never knew to take b12 at all. Maybe I'll go grab that too. Thnx

 

[CastawayBride]

so FF has 77 points for maybe pregnant, I just read that lots of women get temp drops with spotting whwn afs due and are pregnant, also read that some ladies get bfp on ics befoee frers!!

lizlovelust it looks like the dye may be running, maybe a bad batch of IC's? I would save the FRERS until the day AF is due and test away! Good luck!!

 

[Renaendel]

Do you mind me asking What happened? Chemical? Did AF start? Or are you testing neg? Man I am so sorry- if you don't want to answer any of those yet don't worry about it, just curious as to what happened. HUGS TO YOU!!!

I don't mind, it helps me emotionally to write about it. I felt great but very pregnant. My boobs were way bigger, I had bloated out of my pants and I was nauseous. Two days ago I woke up and I had a ton of energy and no symptoms. I started seeing blood in my cm and by last night I was in full pads will full back and abdomen cramps. Did tests all day and they put me at 5w5d but my hcg was only 350. They are listing it as a full mc not a chemical because of the date. My doctors have been wonderful and very responsive.

 

[Tower6]

man I am in shock because your chart was looking great too. What should your count at 5w5d be normally? I have never had a mc but I did bleed severely with my 2nd and 3rd babies and it was the scariest thing, not to mention just totally devastating because the second you see those two lines you bond with that little one as if youve already held them in your arms. My mom mc 9 times and it never got easier to go through, but having people to talk to and relate to who can share their stories/experiences really does help. Just know that you are not alone. If there's anything I can do (venting, talking, listening, support) I'm here, as well as all the ladies too I'm sure! your in my thoughts and prayers!

 

[nats77]

MrsMM, could you please update my Bfp to angel status? I will be seeing you ladies in the February thread.

So sorry Hun, my thoughts are with you xx

 

[Lindss]

Do you mind me asking What happened? Chemical? Did AF start? Or are you testing neg? Man I am so sorry- if you don't want to answer any of those yet don't worry about it, just curious as to what happened. HUGS TO YOU!!!

I don't mind, it helps me emotionally to write about it. I felt great but very pregnant. My boobs were way bigger, I had bloated out of my pants and I was nauseous. Two days ago I woke up and I had a ton of energy and no symptoms. I started seeing blood in my cm and by last night I was in full pads will full back and abdomen cramps. Did tests all day and they put me at 5w5d but my hcg was only 350. They are listing it as a full mc not a chemical because of the date. My doctors have been wonderful and very responsive.

O hun, I'm so so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are w you xx

 

[alkalinerush]

arrgghhh I don't think i'll be able to join you ladies with testing tomorrow! I'm trying to hold off so my bf and I can take it together (and he'd rather be there to see my reaction, so i'm trying to be as sensitive as I can and NOT go and POAS in secret hahaha!) and I'm figuring it'll be special if I just hold my friggen horses and WAIT lol but AHH! I'm on the list for tomorrow but bf will be outa town...BOO! Anyways I figured i'd still jump on here for some SS! I'm (I believe) 10dpo today and had a BFN yesterday But we shall see! I just don't want to get my hopes up to be disappointed...

TONS of symptoms but I also get a lot going on before AF usually so we shall see!
Both yesterday and at 2DPO: bleeding gums
Nausea+Vomiting with a headache (related to headache... or MS?!?! ahh!) at 2 or 3DPO and 8DPO. At 2dpo bf's cigarette breath and THEN the axe body spray he tried to cover up with BOTH made me hurl a little... ??
BB sore since O date, (usual for me) but nips are especially sore and BBs have grown a little and feel heavier (accodring to bf lol) also veiny (normal for me too)
Moody/Emotional/Irritable since maybe about 4-5dpo
Sore throat from about 7DPO till now...was HORRIBLE at 8DPO and is slowly getting less sore

and I believe thats about it. I also think I might see a linea negra(?!?!) but I'm hoping it's not belly-line eye! lol This will be the second baby so I know what i'm lookin for but I read some women have a line all the time (has a different name. strange!)

waddya think ladies?! I'm losin it!! lol

Sticky baby dust to you all! Hoping we get out BFPs!!!!

 

[Renaendel]

man I am in shock because your chart was looking great too. What should your count at 5w5d be normally? I have never had a mc but I did bleed severely with my 2nd and 3rd babies and it was the scariest thing, not to mention just totally devastating because the second you see those two lines you bond with that little one as if youve already held them in your arms. My mom mc 9 times and it never got easier to go through, but having people to talk to and relate to who can share their stories/experiences really does help. Just know that you are not alone. If there's anything I can do (venting, talking, listening, support) I'm here, as well as all the ladies too I'm sure! your in my thoughts and prayers!

Tower, here is where your levels should be.
https://www.betabase.info/showBasicChart.php?type=Single

The doctor did say that most women have increased fertility in the month after a mc, and we can start trying as soon as my bleeding has stopped for a few days and my levels are back to zero. So I have a good future to look to.

Thank you everyone for the support, it is great to be part of such a caring community. I will still be here cheering for your BFPs!

 

[Amiable_Aimee]

man I am in shock because your chart was looking great too. What should your count at 5w5d be normally? I have never had a mc but I did bleed severely with my 2nd and 3rd babies and it was the scariest thing, not to mention just totally devastating because the second you see those two lines you bond with that little one as if youve already held them in your arms. My mom mc 9 times and it never got easier to go through, but having people to talk to and relate to who can share their stories/experiences really does help. Just know that you are not alone. If there's anything I can do (venting, talking, listening, support) I'm here, as well as all the ladies too I'm sure! your in my thoughts and prayers!

Tower, here is where your levels should be.
https://www.betabase.info/showBasicChart.php?type=Single

The doctor did say that most women have increased fertility in the month after a mc, and we can start trying as soon as my bleeding has stopped for a few days and my levels are back to zero. So I have a good future to look to.

When i had my mc last year the doctor told me that i'd have increased fertility for 6 months You have a very good chance, good luck

 

[lizlovelust]

is it usual to get a bfp in the AM and a bfn in the PM?

 

[alkalinerush]

oh Renaendel i'm so sorry hun Idk how I missed that post I just started typing away without realizin what had happened. My heart is with you love

 

[Cristeena]

Im so so sorry Renaendel

 

[Sarah Maryke]

Ok, so i am 24yrs old, mother to a beautiful daughter...We used ovulation strips and tried on every day before and after Oday ,about 8 days straight once a night,with hips up for 30 minutes afterwards...very bloated,look like im on my period but not due till Jan 31st, Been cramping, I'm exhausted, nauseaous, vomited the other night, just feel pregnant, boobs are heavy and ache and i am leaking colostrum...Took a FRER test 2 mornings ago and was very negative, not sure when to take my next test, took a dollar tree test this evening and was negative. This is our first month ttc,first child just happened, and im going nuts! I feel so pregnant, does it sound hopeful? Could i be pregnant?

 

[Tower6]

Stay away AF, stay away!!!! I can't wait to wake up and poas!!!! I think it's still too soon, but AF is due tomorrow so I hope I can start testing!!

 

[gidge]

Good luck tower!!! xx

 

[lizlovelust]

temps low still, spottings super light now, no af still, no cramps. bfn this morning on ic, I think yesterdays was a super evil faulty test

 

[MilosMommy7]

Liz- what's the sensitivity of your ICs?

Tower- wake up and

5dpo today. My breasts feel slightly heavier today and still cramping. Not sure why I feel "out" this month already

 

[lizlovelust]

im,not sure, they say very early detection on em? but why would I get a bfp on one yesterday and a bfn today? it has to be faulty