I have a tmi confession too!
I'm a but swollen down there too, apparently it's just increased blood flow and hormones puffing it up!
But the worst bit for me is when I have sex. Ever since I found out I was pregnant after sex it s red, sore and swollen down there for about half an hour and then it returns to normal. By sore I mean stings! Obviously I had swabs to check for infection or a uti and nothing is wrong. It's only after sex and only since i have been pregnant. so now I am thinking oh lord help me if a penis is causing this much fuss imagine how it's going to sting when a baby comes out of there!
Is getting me down too cus I don't want to have sex cus of it and I feel bad for OH.
I have his this issue too since I got pregnant. Around 18 weeks I was frustrated so I did some research and due to pregnancy hormones some women can become allergic to semen during pregnancy.
I tested the theory by making DH wear condoms, sure enough the sting went away and I felt fine! I feel silly as a pregnant woman buying condoms but if it means it doesn't sting I will take it.