nilllabean26
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so im with a 5 month old and i am going to be divorced soon. I went to the hospital last monday from an allergic reaction and i was struggling to take care of abel as my health was declining. My husband didnt even ask if he could come to the hospital to help out. instead got mad at me and said be lucky im not a single mother and to ask someone at the hospital for help. he had an important test and i thought my health was important and the care of our baby.
when i got home, abel had gotten bit by a spider and had an allergic reaction and I was truly sturggling. when he came home i asked him to watch abel for the night and help and he said he was going to be tired. I started getting angry . voice elevating while im angry and he said he was going to leave. I told him if he does then im going to go live with my mom . he said finally and that was that.
he said I didnt respect his work and i didnt feel respected either. I respected him enough to never ask for him to watch the baby during the night because he had work. sleeping in the babys room with the door closed so the cries dont wake him up. going to nicu by myself without him asking how we were doing.
and i also seek attention because of this. I was really hurt but God has a plan. he was my first everything.and hes saying move on like its the easiest thing to do. no sense in me being super sad and crying while he has no care in the world. all i can do is take care of my little one.
he said he would give me 250 a month to take care of the baby and im lucky im getting that because it would be much less if i went to court.
his family came to visit me when i got out here to talk and see the baby and everyone has told me thats a lie. i cant believe things spiraled so quickly and out of proportion in the matter of a couple of days.
when i got home, abel had gotten bit by a spider and had an allergic reaction and I was truly sturggling. when he came home i asked him to watch abel for the night and help and he said he was going to be tired. I started getting angry . voice elevating while im angry and he said he was going to leave. I told him if he does then im going to go live with my mom . he said finally and that was that.
he said I didnt respect his work and i didnt feel respected either. I respected him enough to never ask for him to watch the baby during the night because he had work. sleeping in the babys room with the door closed so the cries dont wake him up. going to nicu by myself without him asking how we were doing.
and i also seek attention because of this. I was really hurt but God has a plan. he was my first everything.and hes saying move on like its the easiest thing to do. no sense in me being super sad and crying while he has no care in the world. all i can do is take care of my little one.
he said he would give me 250 a month to take care of the baby and im lucky im getting that because it would be much less if i went to court.
his family came to visit me when i got out here to talk and see the baby and everyone has told me thats a lie. i cant believe things spiraled so quickly and out of proportion in the matter of a couple of days.
Yeah we're back to our home country. 
She still has a hernia in her belly button which doctors have said numerous times "Oh it'll go by the time she's one" and ignore it. She has a fear of animals - big and small and her food aversions are cake-like textures. Loves babies too! Especially her little nephew whom was born at 25w (explains oxygen tube). She's been sleeping in her toddler bed since 10 months and has done great. Now she wants the same single bed as Ava which we're buying next month (with bed guards of course). Me and the girls have absolutely nothing to do with the in-laws anymore either. And all 4 of us are looking to move to Lincoln at the end of the year 
pain in the bum she is some times haha 
