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Is your 2015 June Bugs bump pink, blue, or yellow?

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  1. nilllabean26

    nilllabean26 Well-Known Member

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    so im with a 5 month old and i am going to be divorced soon. I went to the hospital last monday from an allergic reaction and i was struggling to take care of abel as my health was declining. My husband didnt even ask if he could come to the hospital to help out. instead got mad at me and said be lucky im not a single mother and to ask someone at the hospital for help. he had an important test and i thought my health was important and the care of our baby.

    when i got home, abel had gotten bit by a spider and had an allergic reaction and I was truly sturggling. when he came home i asked him to watch abel for the night and help and he said he was going to be tired. I started getting angry . voice elevating while im angry and he said he was going to leave. I told him if he does then im going to go live with my mom . he said finally and that was that.

    he said I didnt respect his work and i didnt feel respected either. I respected him enough to never ask for him to watch the baby during the night because he had work. sleeping in the babys room with the door closed so the cries dont wake him up. going to nicu by myself without him asking how we were doing.

    and i also seek attention because of this. I was really hurt but God has a plan. he was my first everything.and hes saying move on like its the easiest thing to do. no sense in me being super sad and crying while he has no care in the world. all i can do is take care of my little one.


    he said he would give me 250 a month to take care of the baby and im lucky im getting that because it would be much less if i went to court.

    his family came to visit me when i got out here to talk and see the baby and everyone has told me thats a lie. i cant believe things spiraled so quickly and out of proportion in the matter of a couple of days.
     
  2. pink_phoenix

    pink_phoenix Well-Known Member

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    Oh nilla!!
    I hope yours and abels health is now getting better!
    And as from men, they are just useless. I'm struggling to keep my relationship together and I'm really coming to my wits end with it all.
    It's one thing to not be interested in you health and wellbeing but it's another to not be interested in your child's!! Men just arnt ment for children, I don't care what anyone one says, some people are lucky and get a man that's good and tolerable and does enough to get my but 90% of women I know do everything for their child/children and the men just think they do it all!
    I don't know if it's hormones or genetics but I think some men truly struggle. And the ones that don't are just amazing!
    My OH already has children and always went on he was great and this and that and I've seriously become to doubt anything he says. I get attitude if I just ask for a bottle at 6am. He doesn't feed ivy, he doesn't change her clothes, I can't remember the last time he changed her nappy. He thinks he's hard done by because he cooks our meals and apparently does all the cleaning in the house......the vaccum has cobwebs.........ivy and myself went to my parents house for 6 hours yesterday and I don't think he left the sofa in that time. Didn't even help me in out of the car with ivy and shopping!
    Seriously thinking single would be better for me.
    I truly hope you can do what is best for you and abel nilla, be thinking of you both xxx
     
  3. MissFox

    MissFox Soon2BMomOf3

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    Oh nilla, I'm sorry! Boys!
    I actually came to bitch about my hubby too. I'm struggling. I'm hardly holding my life together. I'm not getting nearly enough help and the resentment is building. I'm depressed or anxious half the time. Completely exhausted. Working full time and juggling 3 kids. My husband goes to unwind with friends every weekend for a day or goes out of town for the weekend last weekend. Tried to stay out drinking with his brothers tonight. Then acts like I'm a crazy bitch because I'm not just ok with it. No matter how much I tell people I'm struggling or try to get help everyone says I shower and get dressed so I must be coping ok. But I'm not.
     
  4. pink_phoenix

    pink_phoenix Well-Known Member

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    Hi ladies, hope your all well x and babies are doing great x
    Was just wondering if anyone else's hair is falling out?
    I know they say it stops shedding while pregnant and so u can lose extra just after little one arrives but I'm actually going bald.....
    Both sides from my temples upwards is so thin I can see the shape of my head under, almost like a comb over........really starting to be noticeable from a distance and getting really upset about it!!
     
  5. nicoley

    nicoley Well-Known Member

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    I am losing like crazy a lot on my sides...terrible!!
     
  6. treeroot

    treeroot Well-Known Member

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    Yes! This just started this week. I haven't noticed thinning yet, but it is falling out all the time!
     
  7. pink_phoenix

    pink_phoenix Well-Known Member

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    I lose about a barbies, head worth of hair every time I wash or brush it. Like all in one go in clumps. Look like I've got a comb over
     
  8. mdscpa

    mdscpa TTC#2

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    Im loosing a ton of hair as well. Guess its just part of PP .

    Someone's enjoying his bed. :D Yeah we're back to our home country. :dance:

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    We left the house at 3pm yesterday and arrived at the hotel at 6pm today. Adam behaved so well except when he's trying to fall asleep. Our flight from dubai to here was the best as he slept all through out the flight. :dance: need to take a rest now just waiting for Adam to sleep.
     
  9. MissFox

    MissFox Soon2BMomOf3

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    Merry Christmas ladies!my little one loved dinner!
     

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  10. pink_phoenix

    pink_phoenix Well-Known Member

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    Merry Christmas ladies,,,,,, and all the best for 2016
    Couldn't have got thru this year with out you all!!
    Lots of love always
    Pink and ivy




     
  11. SmartieMeUp

    SmartieMeUp Mum of 2 girls.

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    Hey hot mummy's!!

    It's crazy, I haven't been on here for around 5 or 6 months!! Now ALL of our babies are over 1 year old! I can't believe it. Where has time gone?!

    Olivia started walking 2 weeks before her birthday and now she doesn't stop. She is a big bully to Ava too! Always pulling her hair, smacking her, throwing things at her. Enjoys climbing onto things she isn't supposed to climb onto as well! She is completely different to how Ava was as a baby. Has a big blonde mop of curly hair too :haha: She still has a hernia in her belly button which doctors have said numerous times "Oh it'll go by the time she's one" and ignore it. She has a fear of animals - big and small and her food aversions are cake-like textures. Loves babies too! Especially her little nephew whom was born at 25w (explains oxygen tube). She's been sleeping in her toddler bed since 10 months and has done great. Now she wants the same single bed as Ava which we're buying next month (with bed guards of course). Me and the girls have absolutely nothing to do with the in-laws anymore either. And all 4 of us are looking to move to Lincoln at the end of the year :)

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    Can't wait to hear from everybody else! And see photos :D
     
  12. pink_phoenix

    pink_phoenix Well-Known Member

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    Aww smarie your girls are just too cute!!!
    Great about the sleeping in a toddler bed, we found ivy slept miles better in a propper bed but on a few occasions she got a black eye in the night from the edges of the bed frame i couldnt chusion so now shes back in a cot bed and ill take one side off when shes a bit older.
    Bloody doctors...... Im sure the majority of them fly by the seat of their pants. Most have been uselss for us and ivy.
    Hope olivias hernia sorts its self soon.

    Ivy walked at 10 months and with in two weeks shes was off and have never stopped so i get what u mean on that haha!! Shes a bit of a terror at min. Has mine and daddies temper. Is obcessed with the dog and pretty much anything that moves if im honest haha. Had a few words now as well as running and climbing in the sofas :( pain in the bum she is some times haha
     
  13. SmartieMeUp

    SmartieMeUp Mum of 2 girls.

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    Thank you ^_^

    Ivy hasn't changed at all! Her eyes are so big, dark and beautiful! We managed to get her a single bed but still doesn't stop her from attacking Ava lol. The guards were pointless as she could climb down the sides ha. Oh bless her :( it does take a few bumps to get them used to knowing where the edges are but if it's happened frequently then best to keep her safe.
    Indeed, I'm going to take her back tomorrow as it has actually affected her eating (it didn't occur to me at the time until my mum pointed it out) she barely eats and just wants fluid.

    Have you had the struggles with opening cupboards yet? Or raiding the fridge? lol. At least she has a love for the family animals! Have you introduced your beardies? Olivia's absolutely petrified of all animals. She will go near our African Grey if he's in the cage but if he moves near her she screams and shakes, same with our rabbit. Lmao bless her! Still got the worst of them to come yet!!
     
  14. pink_phoenix

    pink_phoenix Well-Known Member

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    Aww no thats awful, poor Olivia. I hope the uselss gits get her sorted. Thats just not right.
    Aww are they both in the same room? We were wondering when we would be able to get ivy in with her dads daughter. But shes a bit spoilt and id imagine she would just piss about keeping ivy awake all night. She already uses the bathroom times 10 times a night!!

    Ohhh yes shes in the cupboards. Broke the catches we had on the doors. Comes running in with mouthfuls of dog food or packets of un open crisp.

    Shes a big fan of the beardies. She stands at the tank for ages and watches them, tries kissing them when their out of the tank and we also got her some fish that she loves watching.
     
  15. pink_phoenix

    pink_phoenix Well-Known Member

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    Having an issue putting pics on haha



    No shes never changed haha.....shes still her dads mini me
    Although he keeps trying to say she looks like me haha
     
  16. DoodleDoo

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    Wow, I haven't been on this site in so long but it's so nice to see everyone's updates! Are any of you girls thinking about another baby yet?

    Here's my little one now. She's so grown up already.
     

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    pink_phoenix Well-Known Member

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    Awww adorable 😍

    We did think about it at one point but quickley changed our minds.

    Same about getting married, even had it booked haha
     
  18. eppgirl

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    Hey ladies!! It's been a good while, not sure if anyone updates in here anymore the latest update I see is 2016, but boys are now 2 years and a little over three months.

    They're all growing so fast!! 😍😭

    We are now TTC baby #4 though DH has told me that if it doesn't happen this cycle he's not willing to continue ATM. I had a miscarriage at roughly 4-5 weeks in April and two CP one in June and one in July-Aug.

    I'll try to post a pic of the boys now. (Excuse the messy faces I can never keep them clean 😖)
     
  19. eppgirl

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    My twin-ados!!
     

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  20. SmartieMeUp

    SmartieMeUp Mum of 2 girls.

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    Haha bless them! Do they have similar personalities? SO sorry for your losses, don't tell yourself you are trying, your body will play tricks!! I had a MC in September 2015, and coil put in. I was so ready for a baby, but inside I'm glad it happened when it did because Olivia's a handful. I have asked OH if we could try again soon, he's not so keen but have to see in the next coming year. I love having 2 but I don't feel complete.

    Olivia turned 2 in June, she is a nightmare if I must say so haha. She's so cheeky, but uses her manners. Her speech isn't up to scratch and may need to see a therapist. She has not long only just been sleeping through. Before she was waking around 3 or 4 times a night. Now she's 7pm-6:30/7am.

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