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[Mrs Mel]

Oh no, I'm so sorry. Life is so unkind x

 

[tallybee]

Oh gosh natasha I'm so sorry hun sending love and hugs xx

 

[nmpjcp2015]

Really sorry to hear that Natasha. Sending you hugs and wishing you the best.

 

[Babylove100]

So sorry to hear this Natasha. Big

 

[Rhi_Rhi1]

Really sorry Natasha

 

[Serenjay]

Aww Natasha I am so sorry sweetheart xx

 

[Natasha2605]

I'm hurt so bad right now. She said maybe my dates were out as she thought she could see the "start" of something towards the end. I don't see how they could be so far out though. I Don't know how I can face work any time soon either. My senior is two days ahead of me in dates

 

[3boys]

I'm hurt so bad right now. She said maybe my dates were out as she thought she could see the "start" of something towards the end. I don't see how they could be so far out though. I Don't know how I can face work any time soon either. My senior is two days ahead of me in dates

When did you get your bfp?

 

[Dark_Star]

I understand completely hun. I have been through the same thing.
The important part is that you haven't been ruled out yet.

 

[Natasha2605]

Six weeks ish the sack measured which counting back would take date to January 27th. I had faint bfps around feb 5th and very strong from feb 14th onwards. Does that mean hope? Probably not I know but so confused

 

[GingerPanda]

If I'm being honest, I'm not sure how your dates could be that far out either... Wouldn't that mean you got your BFP around the time you supposedly ovulated? I'm so sorry, honey. I've had two losses before this pregnancy, and it is so painful and unfair. Especially when you knew someone so close to your dates. Hubs's best friend's wife was pregnant the same time as me last year, too. She has a little girl now, and it was so painful to hear the updates.

Sending you love and understanding. If you need someone to vent to, feel free to PM me.

 

[Dark_Star]

I don't know hun. I think 6 weeks sac size would be considered as the size of a pregnancy 6 weeks from LMP, so about 3 weeks since implantation. But there's always room for hope.

 

[3boys]

Six weeks ish the sack measured which counting back would take date to January 27th. I had faint bfps around feb 5th and very strong from feb 14th onwards. Does that mean hope? Probably not I know but so confused

I'm so sorry but it sounds like a blighted ovem I had one a few years ago. If your dates today are right then you were getting faint positives before you ovulated and strong positives at 4dpo. I'd love to be wrong but can't see how that would happen x

 

[Natasha2605]

I had a period in December and then the implant out of January 8th so I've absolutely no idea when I would have ovulated etc.

I dunno. Unless there's a miracle next week then I guess I'm out for October it's so confusing and feels so wrong. Hubby sobbed with me and I've never seen him cry before in 6 years together.

Thanks so much for the support ladies. I really appreciate it.

 

[Dark_Star]

The loss support forums are really helpful. I'm not saying that this is a loss, but a lot of helpful people who have been through difficulties post there. You may find people there with similar stories who can offer you some answers about what's going on.

 

[3boys]

Oh hun listen I know what you are going through I've been there twice and it's an awful place. I know we all like to be hopeful but you need to prepare yourself I wouldn't say that if I thought I was wrong. You can't have a positive pregnancy test before you ovulate. I'm so sorry.

 

[GingerPanda]

You're welcome, of course, to hang out with us for as long as you want to. I'm really hoping you get good news at your scan.

 

[cheree89]

Big hugs Natasha.

 

[Natasha2605]

Thank you all. Will need to take some time out the pregnancy forums. It will do me no good to keep looking and wondering. If I could be removed off the main post that would be much appreciated. Will update you all if there are any significant changes.

I hope you all have happy and healthy pregnancies and that as few of us mummies as possible have to feel this pain.

 

[GingerPanda]

I'll take you off hon.