I bought loads of Cloth for my daughter... i even made cloth nappies!!! she was a lot smaller than i anticipated so the nappies i had were miles too big for her, so bought disposables...
Tried to use them again when she actually fitted in them, but it was no good, i was use to the quickness, easiness of the disposables
But i did manage to breastfed her for 10months, so I at least accomplished one thing
WRAPS: I did have a pink wrap thing, it was like a Moby wrap. I used it a few times with my daughter, but it just wasn't for us. She seemed comfy in it and it felt ok, but i felt bit top heavy and although i felt fine walking about when pregnant, it seemed even more scary to carry her freehand in the wrap lol Maybes i just needed the confidence in knowing she was safe etc
CARSEATS: are a nightmare, there so bulky and big. My 7 year old still has a booster, because he's not at the weight limit for going without one! I need to buy a new carseat and base, had the Maxi cosi Pebble and Isofix familyfix base (you can attach the next group 2-3 seat on the base), glad we upgraded our car as i don't think we would of managed having 2 isofix bases and a booster seat in our old 5 seater car
BLANKET: this is the blanket i bought my daughter: https://www.borndirect.com/gear/bedding/blankets+swaddling-blankets/stokke/xplory-knitted-blanket?v1=Purple+and+Orange&utm_source=google&utm_medium=shopping&utm_campaign=feed&gclid=Cj0KEQjwuI-oBRCEi87g0K3O8OoBEiQAb25WATB6UwjpXh33Z2yFP8WHPKd-XgYgIMpx5SocRdM8QbUaAv2U8P8HAQ
I love Purple!!! but not sure you could class it as a Gender neutral blanket lol