Wondering if anyone can relate.
This is my first and i struggle with dh. Hes not an overtly emotional person.. He keeps his feelings to himself, doesnt talk to people about problems yata yata. This drives me on a normal day but i figured he would be more supportive when im pregnant.
He doesnt show any interest in the pregnancy. Hes 'relieved' its a boy. Wont take prenatal classes with me 'because he doesnt have time' .. Wont look at names, wont shop. Nothing.
I told him tonight that if he isnt going to care, be there, be supportive etc when im in labour.. That he needs to decide now. Because i want him there but not if he isnt going to learn and support me. He says he wants to.. But he doesnt show it or make any strides towards it. I just picture me in labour and pissed off hes sitting in the corner texting. Id rather him tell me now so that i can have someone else.m