I searched for nursing tanks for a while, but couldn't find any that seemed good quality with a good price. I realized my maternity tanks are very easy to stretch down & I already have nursing bras, so I plan to just wear those.
I'm bringing my nursing pillow to the hospital, but plan on leaving it in the car until I decide I want it. I also plan to bring my birth ball and leave it in the car. I expect the hospital to have them, but if for some reason one was unavailable to me, I would be so upset. I sit on it all the time at home.
Other "extras" I'm bringing are clothes for me to wear after delivery, three outfits total for baby, a couple swaddle blankets (one goes with an outfit), his "special" blanket I plan to use for pictures, snacks, my own pillow, a little makeup, laptop, and camera. Everything else I'd said is bare necessities.
I was able to pack for DH and I in a tote bag, and then take our diaper bag, but I decided to move our things to a small suitcase so I'd have room to bring things I collect from the hospital home.
Sorry I've been quiet lately! I always check on this thread and read everyone's updated though. Im happy everything at this point has just been mostly scares!