I totally agree. How do you even check it anyway? xxwhy are you continueing to check your cervix? the only thing that indicates a true problem or potential problem is heavy bleeding or bleeding that wont stop and accompanied with cramping. id avoid checking because it's just going to worry you and baby needs a positive environment to thrive in. be positive!
https://www.newhealthguide.org/Cervix-In-Early-Pregnancy.html
This article seems to say that soft is normal and that it can take a while for your cervix to rise...