2have4kids
Mother of 3
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We have a torn relationship with them now and because of their behavior we no longer trust them. I will also say that we didn't expect this type of behavior from them it totally came out of left field. So just be prepared for how people react. I hope that it goes over well for you and that your family has commons sense to respect your wishes regarding the safety of your child! Good luck!
My mother had a tantrum when I requested that all family members who may wish to babysit attend a first aid & CPR class with us (that we offered to pay for). She said she just won't be babysitting for us! When she found out that one of her good friends saved her grand daughters life by clearing a choke and that my sister happily signed up for it she agreed. She's the last person I'd trust in an emergency and the first to need training. Isn't it ironic that the people who need the boundaries the most are the ones who put up the most fuss?
We did find a local lifeguard who's taking kinesiology to treat and identify injuries to babysit for us as a back up. We interviewed her and her mother together, who actually volunteered to come & meet us. They have a big family with lots of little ones so it was really perfect. If we ever get scared that grandma isn't fit to care for LO or maybe 3 will be too much (we have twins otw) then there's options. Lots to consider about the ppl around us when you have kids!