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[oldermummy]

Hi, I have just read your thread and would like to just say how awful all of this must be for you.
I have been down the court route with my now teenage daughter and I would just like to advise you to be careful about anything you write to him, especially if he is threatening court as your correspondance can be taken into account. If you do write or email him, at the top put 'Without Predudice' (sp) , that way it couldn't be taken into consideration by a judge.
As difficult as it may be for you to try and put all of this out of your mind for the time being I would try to so you can enjoy you baby's birth and first few days.
Sending you lots of hugs.

 

[suzib76]

Purpledahlia that is brilliant i think being in a harsh mood helped

 

[purpledahlia]

i just re-read it but i would take into account what older mummy says and add in ' withut predjeduce ' but even if it was taken into account in court i think its reasonable in the fact that its just clearly stating that he cant bully her and the courts im assuming and hoping wouild take that into account that she clearly feels intimidated by him, maybe id also add in something like ' i feel i cannot say this to you in person for fear of your reaction, ' or something. xxx

 

[sweetlullaby]

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[purpledahlia]

 

[sweetlullaby]

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[lou_w34]

That is one amazing letter!!
Its not harsh, its being straight to the point without being bitchy!

Well done!

Hope your both feeling better

xx

 

[teal]

The letter sounds really good!

Hope you're feeling better xx

 

[sweetlullaby]

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[purpledahlia]

I would tell them to back off or you will contact the police as its harrassment. Def go to CAB tomorrow..

 

[sweetlullaby]

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[teal]

I hope you manage to speak to someone tomorrow.

It's horrible him and his mum are causing all this extra stress for you - especially so close to your due date.

Sending you hugs xx