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[Jem88]

I feel really bad right now, i'm normally okay but sometimes all this ttc & everyone else around us is preg or has babys, it just gets too much sometimes.. & i always blame my OH, i don't mean to but i dunno it just happens. i'm just really fed up of having to wait & i feel selfish for saying that because i kno theres woman on here that's been ttc longer than me.. we had to goto the hospital today to hand OHs 2nd SA in an there was loads of pregnant woman there there's loads of updates on facebook & scan pics of people i kno whos pregnant/has babys.. just seems really unfair that we're the ones stuck with the problem when everyone else seems to have it easy.. its really just the waiting & waiting that gets too me, we had a mc that wasnt planned but we ttc straight away afterwards & it took us a year & half to get pregnant again but that was a chemical, it wouldnt be as bad if we could get pregnant quicker, but its annoyin to think we had to wait a year & half to get pregnant & then it was gone a week later

 

[smileypants]

Hi hun,

I don't really know what to say to cheer you up, just wanted to post so you don't feel alone.

My OH is giving first SA on Friday and i'll be getting results of some ultrasounds I had next week so hopefully will no more then.

I am with you on hating the waiting, it's the worst bit and everyone else having their babies is tough to. Some days are worse than others.

I hope your wishes come true soon x xx

If your ever feeling down just send me a message x x x x

 

[Jem88]

so far, my OH has had 1 SA & his results wern't that good, i'm to do 21 day bloods this month, in about 2 weeks time, but i've been temping & i'm 100% i ovulate & that i'm fine.. but obv we don't kno or have proof if you like until i get bloods back.. so i guess its because of his 1st SA i blame him.. which i do feel really bad about but i cant help it :S it's just somthin i can't help with or get him to help "fix" it.

 

[smileypants]

i know how you feel hun, everythings just out of our control and it's not fair. How does your OH react to his results i'm worried about how hubby will feel if his results are not good.

Doctors don't seem to take it seriously either, don't know how yours have been but they are just so laid back about everything which doesn't help either! AAAARGGHH!! x

 

[Jem88]

he had a really good count, but the rest wasnt great, the doc didnt really comment on his results, just said "there not great but we will get pregnant, it'll just take a while"(an it did, a whole year & half lol..) he then said, what they all say.. " it only takes one" doc dont seem to help much really, ours we seem to be answerin the same questions everytime we goto see her, ive to remind her that ive been pregnant twice now, she seems to think i havent been until i tell her, you;d think they'd actually check peoples records before they ask them to come in. i think because our doc didnt seem too concerned apart from it'll take a while, he wasnt too bothred about the results, but he did start taking selenium with zinc vitamins, an we got our 2nd bfp a month after he started them, so im hoping when we get his results back they'll have made a diff.

 

[smileypants]

hopefully so, hope you get the results that you need. I am worn out from
ttc to be honest, think i might have a good cry tonight.

Can't be doing with staying positive today!

Sorry i'm not really cheering you up very much! x x