29 ttc#1 14 months, wanting a buddy!

Hena is right Feb...allow yourself to take a moment for you. It's one thing when acquaintances get pregnant. When it is someone in your inner circle, it just hurts so much more. Lots of love!

Nothing going on here...just my TWW. How will I distract myself for another 9 days? Lol
 
Hi ladies - I'm officially and completely back. No more honeymoon, well, for now ;) but my AF has been weird lately (I guess the witch knows that I am TTC and is getting on my last nerves). Before I was about 28-29 and then, 32-34 days, and now 21-22 days. I'm all over the place...no more Ms. nice newlywed (tee-hee), i'm scheduling my appointment with my OB again NOW :)

Coco - how beautiful CONGRATS!

I have a cousin that had an etopic pregnancy and is now on clomid for 3 months and she still does not ovulate :( and does not have her period without medication :( she wishes I will not go through what she has gone through.

Hena/Feb and all the new ladies!! Hola :)
 
Thanks Hena & Muffin, I know your both right... I just needed to hear it from someone else. The tears came for about 5-10 minutes, but after that I felt a LOT better. My girlfriend knows we are TTC and she wants me to be pregnant so bad lol... she's so nervous.

My mum and I went to a baby cloths sale last weekend! Everything that had a sticker was $1.00 and without a sticker it was .10 it was so awesome! I got tons of 0-3 month stuff (unisex) for super cheap! Lots of them were right from the Disney store with tags on??? jack pot! YAYYY! I also bought 4 maternity shirts for $2 each!!

Welcome back KC! Keep us updated on your Dr. appointments!
 
Hi Ladies! I'm not feeling very well at the moment, but we had a great weekend with the in-laws!!!
Welcome back KC, we missed you!!!!
I've lost track, where is everyone in their cycle now, and who's going to the doctor when?
Hope you're all well!!!
 
Hey! I'm on Cycle day 48

I "think" I ovulated sometime between CD 42 and 44. Yesterday I had light pink stuff on the tissue when i wiped... today I had the same along with tiny tiny RED blood dots (bad right?). My lower right side of my abdomen is tweeky... I have had this feeling before... I just don't know at what point in my cycle... ( i sure wish i would have payed more attention before) Anyways I've never spotted before a period, 8 times out of 10 i just wake up and she's here. If this is my period.... I have NO CLUE what is going on at ALL. in the last 12.5 months my cycles have been the following:
92 CD
30 CD
77 CD
49 CD
26 CD
55 CD

I'm on my 7th cycle... That's so frustrating... I NEED TO KEEP POSITIVE!!! I CAN DO THIS!!

I have a DR. apt on friday, but it's just a meet and greet. I'm going to ask a million questions and bring all my "notes" I'm praying that she is helpful... please please please.
 
OOooh, that sounds promising! Tiny red dots aren't necessarily bad, it's red flow you don't want to see. Don't get excited because you don't want a let-down later, but I'll get excited for you :winkwink:

Make sure you tell your new doctor how irregular your cycles are, maybe she can do a blood test and check your hormone levels too. Hope she's a good doc, I'm 100% the same, if I feel uncomfortable it's a one-time deal (once in Germany I lied and said my period had started that morning just to avoid an examination with a doctor who creeped me out :haha:) I have a lovely ob/gyn now, and never want to give her up! She even speaks English so I never have to spend hours looking up vocabulary before I go in.:cloud9:
 
OOooh, that sounds promising! Tiny red dots aren't necessarily bad, it's red flow you don't want to see. Don't get excited because you don't want a let-down later, but I'll get excited for you :winkwink:

Make sure you tell your new doctor how irregular your cycles are, maybe she can do a blood test and check your hormone levels too. Hope she's a good doc, I'm 100% the same, if I feel uncomfortable it's a one-time deal (once in Germany I lied and said my period had started that morning just to avoid an examination with a doctor who creeped me out :haha:) I have a lovely ob/gyn now, and never want to give her up! She even speaks English so I never have to spend hours looking up vocabulary before I go in.:cloud9:

I'm keeping calm about it all... it could just be from :sex: really. it's hard to not be a little excited though.. BUT it would be great if you could jump up and down and run around yelling at the top of your lungs for me Hena :haha:

How is everyone else??? I miss you guys!:flower:
 
I'm on my way to the Doctor!!

How did it go Feb?

Hola! The Doctors apt went so fabulous I could cry! She was so understanding of all my questions and worry's. She has set me up to get more blood work (different from the prenatal bloods I had prior to TTC) and has set up an ultra sound for me for July 18th! She talk calmly when discussing the possibility of PCOS... which I have been researching and I have many symptoms, but she also made it clear to me that it could just be hormones... I'm nervous to find the results out, but at the same time I JUST WANNA KNOW! We talked about Clomid as well, but she said one step at a time! I'm nervous... and feel kinda overwhelmed but Greg is helping me focus on the positive and this is going to happen!

I'm currently on CD 51 and This morning I had a blood red on the tissue... and even told Greg that I got my period... tonight it was like mucky dark cm and gross. I made Greg look lol... he had a look of terror (animated) Anyways who knows whats going on with me lol. but we will find out soon!:flower:
 
Hoorah for your excellent new doctor!!!!! You must be so revieved/happy to know you have someone who listens to you and is willing to take action! I hope she'll be confirming a pregnancy for you really soon!!!

afm, I think I told we were taking the "every day is OD" approach this month, and I'm SO glad we did! I had convinced myself that I O earlier than the generic calanders suggest, and last month I gave up doing opks after a week because I caught the tail end of a surge, had a load of negs and thought I'd missed O. This month I had that surge again around cd12 and had one hair-line that was as dark as the conrol, so thought that was it, but NOPE! New respect for FF because it told be O was not detected, then yesterday a had a big fat beautiful positive OPK! Hehehe, I was so excited you'd have thought it was THE bfp :haha: anyway, we've been bding like bunnies, so I hope something happens this month! baby dust for all of us!!!
 
Hoorah for your excellent new doctor!!!!! You must be so revieved/happy to know you have someone who listens to you and is willing to take action! I hope she'll be confirming a pregnancy for you really soon!!!

afm, I think I told we were taking the "every day is OD" approach this month, and I'm SO glad we did! I had convinced myself that I O earlier than the generic calanders suggest, and last month I gave up doing opks after a week because I caught the tail end of a surge, had a load of negs and thought I'd missed O. This month I had that surge again around cd12 and had one hair-line that was as dark as the conrol, so thought that was it, but NOPE! New respect for FF because it told be O was not detected, then yesterday a had a big fat beautiful positive OPK! Hehehe, I was so excited you'd have thought it was THE bfp :haha: anyway, we've been bding like bunnies, so I hope something happens this month! baby dust for all of us!!!

wow Hena:) you must just be so stoked right now! This month sounds so promising for you! If you get your BFP next month will you tell ur family right way? I think i read that you r going to visit?

Do any of you have a birth plan idea in your head yet? as in Hospital/homebirth/waterbirth/ ? I;ve been reading up on some stuff latley and curious to hear what you guys want?
 
Sandra, I LOVE your new pic, what a beautiful bride!

Yes, I think we will tell my closest family right away, just because we're going to see them this month and it would be so nice to tell my parents and baby bro in person. Maybe my grandparents too because they'll be so overjoyed and you never know how long older folks have. Nico's family, aunts and uncles, friends, etc will have to wait at least until the 3-month mark, maybe 4 depending on how we feel. If we lose a baby I don't wnat to have to tell everyone!

Birth plan, what and interestinbg question! Def. hospital for me, I have the same tilted uterus as my mother and she ended up needing c-sections both times, so I want the equipment ready just in case. I love the idea of water birth, but I suppose when I'm pg and meet with a midwife I'll see all the options available at the hospitals here (we pay extra for my insurance just to have access to whatever birthing facility we want when the time comes!)

How are the rest of you doing? We've been kind of quiet here lately, I miss my buddies!!!
 
Hey ladies,

I know it's Tuesday but I hope you girls had a great weekend. :)

I have 2 more days before AF. I'm fighting the urge to test. The weird thing is that I don't have any back pain, headaches or cramping that I normally get. Other than a few sits lately, I have nothing going on. Grrr. I wish the signs were much more black and white.

A birth plan, eh? Geez. Other than the getting pregnant part, I haven't given it much thought. Lol. But now that the subject has come up, I'm thinking hospital. I think I want to be a close to a doctor as possible.
 
Thanks Hena! Please bare with me for the next few weeks ladies... I broke my aircard for my lap top yesterday, and now the only internet access I have is on my Blackberry :( Hena, does having a tilted uterus effect TTC at all? I haven't decided exactly what birth plan I want yet... But I do know I want a midwife to deliver. My older sis had a home birth, so she has been talking to me a lot about the pro's. I was just curious what other's were interested in! Muffin! Go test! He he, u have strong will power! .
 
Hey Ladies, just read all of this thread, you guys are awesome! Can I join your little group? I am in a state of NTNP, Mike (OH) doesnt want us to "try" persay as he finds this too clinical and too much pressure for him. I figure I will do the maths in my head and just make a move when I think the time is right lol. I am 29, been wanting a baby for the past year and now that Mike is on board too I want it to work out. Last month we were both convinced I was pregnant, turns out my af just decided to come 2 weeks late for the first time ever.

Loved reading your stories, Hena, I think we were chatting in another thread last month. Feb, fingers are crossed for you, how did your doctors results go?

Would dearly love to have people to chat with about all this stuff!
 
Hi all,
Think I posted on here a while back but have lost track! Can I rejoin?!
Am 29 and been ttc for about 20 months (but 6 months of that was taken up with a mmc) and to be fair after 12 months we found out DH was on epilepsy meds which caused bad sperm results! So after 20 months we have prob only had 4 good ones!!! Anyway this is cycle 2 after a mc so fingers crossed. We are going all out this month! My cycles have lengthened a bit after the mc so I am using my cbfm again now to try and get an idea of ov timing. Temping doesn't suit me as I am beyond rubbish in the morns!

Nice to meet you all and good luck to everyone xx
 

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