2nd degree tear + sex (tmi warning)

[josephine3]

Lol i love how all the names i recognise from third tri are now over here on the 'sex thread' haha.
Oh has started to pester me again now as neither of us had much sex drive in 3rd tri. I gotta say i wasnt expecting it but i feel mentally ready again now, 3 weeks pp, but im just scared about physically. Even tho iv healed well. I remember us waiting a lot longer 1st time around. Will probly give it another week or so.. I feel a little 'itchy' down there i think the way iv healed is a bit 'bumpy' im not sure how it will feel..

 

[Mummafrog]

Hah yeah.. same for me, I'm starting to feel mentally ready and excited but I daren't do it yet I am thinking that when I reach four weeks I might do some more intimate things and see how it feels
I feel mostly comfortable and can wipe now without it hurting but I also get an itchy/dry feeling if I wear pads or knickers for too long.

One thing that is worrying me is if i feel with my finger my cervix is really low and close to my entrance, did anyone else notice this? Did it rise up aagain? :/

 

[magicwhisper]

we "tried" well i say that but it hurt way to much do a thing as soon as he tried to he had to stop :/ im too scared to try againn

 

[Mummafrog]

Awh magic I'm sorry to hear it was painful I know what it's like to be too tight, do you think it's the scar tissue that has made you tighter/less stretchable? I'm sure it will improve, you're very early days, as ladies have said use a lot of lube. If other intimate things are okay maybe just stick to them for a few more weeks, then try again.

 

[Mummafrog]

Well ladies we bit the bullet last night We started off with foreplay and lots of kisses and we just couldn't resist! I'm four and a half weeks pp and got my doctor check a week from today.
It was AMAZING :O The pain I was hoping would go has completely gone, I've had it since I first started having sex and have been battling with it and birth cured it, I cried with happiness. And aside from that it was amazing sex, had to be a bit careful the first few thrusts while I stretched on the inside but by the end I've got to admit we weren't being that careful!
I'm so relieved and it was better than I thought it could be so soon
Thought I'd update haha. I hope things are as wonderful for others!