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We recently lost our baby girl at 17 weeks and 3 days. We have four older children who were all so excited for a baby sister and we thought we were in the safe zone to tell. Plus, I was definitely showing, so we couldn't help but tell people. Our baby girl died from Fetal Maternal Hemorrhage. We are told this can happen randomly and there is no other explanation. She didn't have any chromosomal abnormalities and had just suffered the FMH prior to my regular doctor check up. We are so devastated. We desperately wanted this baby. I would love to hear stories of other mums who have had successful pregnancies after 2nd trimester losses. We do want to try again when my body is healthy and recovered. I just turned 40, so we are not going to wait very long. Thank you.