3 of db family announced pg + 1 of my friends (this week) x

Discussion in 'Long Term Trying To Conceive' started by baybeehopes, Dec 19, 2009.

  1. baybeehopes

    baybeehopes ttc#1 26months...

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    hi just had alot of pg's announced this week 4 in total :( ok i am happy4them, of course i am... Just alittle hard to take, had so many this yr...! 2of the couples hav been together a matter of months, + 1couple hav a 4mth old girl... An i knw this sounds silly but wen we started to ttc, none of my close friends had children, now there is only 2couples that havent, + i feel like now its like we r doin it bcz they hav...i only confided in 1 friend :(sorry needed a little moan. Good luck girks x x
     
  2. sparkle83

    sparkle83 XLTTC: 10 yrs & counting!

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    ouch! I really feel for ya sweets. We're kinda similar, when we started, alot of our friends were too young/unattached, and now we seem to be the only ones without.
     
  3. baybeehopes

    baybeehopes ttc#1 26months...

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    its awful to feel jelous, but i cant help but envy them, 1of the girls is 16...an to say she doesnt have a clue is an understatement...she just left her 1st fulltime job...her bf has no more than4days a wk labouring as he too is young, they have no money, no house, no car...an wen she found out she went+bort childrens knives+forks...! Thats like the last thing she needs right now...sorry sound really bitter but hw is that right? We hav a nice home, cars, jobs.:and alot of love to give, roll on 2010. Good luck sparkle x x
     
  4. kairzh7

    kairzh7 Trying to conceive #1

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    I know how you feel. I've been there, so just know that you are not alone and put a smile on your face and congratulate them even though inside you don't feel like it.
     

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