34 weeks and still terrified something will go wrong

[Mumtodogs]

Basically as the title suggests!!! I'm 34 weeks and terrified that something will go wrong during the last few weeks or during birth that means I will loose my bubs.

I spent the while first tri worrying, 2nd wasn't too bad, but the fears have kicked back in a few weeks ago.

I feel very teary about it all, I just want him here safe so that I can look after him. I spoke to hubby about it a bit, and that night he had nightmares but he won't tell me what they were.

I really don't feel like there is anyone to talk to about this, and there are certain words I can't bring myself to say in case I tempt fate. I feel like even thinking about this stuff is tempting fate.

I'm so all over at the moment.

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[Kasey84]

I'm almost 37 weeks and have similar feelings. I think most pregnant women have fears, but perhaps ours is heightened because we've already experienced the devastation of loss first hand. I was very worried and anxious up until about 20 weeks. After that point it eased a little, but the thoughts and fears are definitely creeping back in.

I wish I had some advice, but really I'm just taking things one day at a time and trying to be positive.

Best wishes for the safe arrival of your little one