I recently started dating my partner and have now found out I am 4 weeks pregnant which has completely shocked us both. Neither of us has ever had children before and I have always wanted a family at some point but I am not sure if my partner did. I am really happy at the news but devastated this has happened so soon into our relationship but regardless of this I cannot bear to terminate this pregnancy which he says is the only way to go. I know I couldn't live with the guilt or trauma of a termination and my family say I should keep it not just for those reasons but as I am older as well. I am so socked and confused by this situation.