3dp3dt...Going Crazy!!

[ababy4us]

Confirmed negative. They want me to go in for repeat blood work and then I can stop meds. Pffffffffffffftttt, I stopped those meds today. Why delay the inevitable? I'm not going in for bloods either, I can't handle it.

 

[Deepsea]

So sorry everyone for all the bad news today.... I truly hope that atleast one of us will get some good news this month..... Ababy4us, I don't blame you on stopping the meds, I would too.

I work night shift, so my days get kinda screwed up (I'm writing this at midnight my time and I'm all messed up with what day it is But I tested again when I got home after work, Wednesday, and BFN. Today, Thursday, I am 7dp5dt. 12dpo. If i don't get a hint of a line today or tomorrow then I am out as well for this month.... Still no real symptoms. Didn't really feel well today, little upset stomach. Could have been that I was really tired and didn't sleep well and took my prenatal vitamin earlier than normal.

 

[Minno]

Bloomin hell girls what's going on?! I'm bleeding again this morning - only a matter of time before it comes on proper. On my way to work I'm going to pop to the chemist and get a test and test later. At least I'll know then. Ababy totally agree, I would also stop the meds and I did just that my first cycle when it was obvious it was bfn and clinic wanted me to keep going . Ridiculous. Your body is getting mixed messages while trying to shed lining we're busy taking meds to build it up. Have to stop now I think.
Deep sea so sorry about the bfn petal. Looks like we're all in the same boat this time around
Sophie, how are you doing?

So how bad are we expecting af to be girls? My lining was 11mm at transfer.
Xx

 

[Sophie2000]

AF arrived in full flow this morning it's heavier and more painful than normal but the clinic did tell me to expect this.
Made an appointment to go back and see the consultant mid June so will see what he says then, it will probably be filled with more doom and gloom!
Did you test today Minno? How are you feeling today ababyforus? How about you deepsea, any more testing? X

 

[Minno]

Haven't tested yet as bleeding but more tonight and it's obvious it's over but I did buy a test for tomoro to confirm. Clinic say they prefer two negative tests before I stop meds but if it's negative tomoro I'm stopping everything.
Sophie sorry that af has arrived for you also. What day is that then? I will be 10dp5dt tomoro, so 15 dpo. Day after missed period in natural cycle. Stupid body is regular enough when I do ivf but in real life af can comes anytime from day 19-37! Typical.
Have u stopped all the meds now?

Deep sea and ABaby how are you both?
Xx

 

[Deepsea]

8dp5dt and still no second line. Pretty sure I'm out for this cycle, but trying to keep positive. I saw someone from another thread who didn't see a second line until 14dp5dt and pregnancy is doing great at 32wks. Seems crazy, but I'll grab onto it and keep telling myself I'm not out yet.

 

[Minno]

Deep sea I think you're still in with a good chance. My clinic say 14 days after a 5 day transfer for testing with a hpt and not before. Also just read a post from a lady who never got positive test until 17 days past. I wouldn't test again until otd as you might not get a realistic result until then.

As for me, I did test yesterday and got a faint line but still spotting and reAlly not hopeful. Clinic gave me a row for testing early too!
X

 

[Deepsea]

Any updates Minno? A faint line is a positive in my book. Is it progressing?

My nurse called this morning with the news I expected. BFN. It hurts, but I'm ok with it. I think so atleast My husband doesn't want to do anymore cycles until I find a new job on day shift. 2 yrs of nights is really taking a toll on me. And we have decided to wait till the end of summer and reevaluate where we are and what we want to do. I need to find a new clinic as mine is closing. Maybe get some new opinions. I really think there is something autoimmune going on, but my current doctor says there is not enough evidence to support autoimmune testing and that it doesn't seem to make a difference in the success of IVF..... I would at least like to do some testing to say hey, thats not the issue either. We will see. Thanks lady's for the emotional support in this process. Good luck everyone!