3years of ttc!

[a_missy]

Still waiting on AF was due on Friday just past, Makes me 5days late tomorrow! bloody pain in the behide arrrr ;( I called nurses at Fclinic they think the procedure I had would of knocked AF offf course??? I had spotting on Friday & Sat??? God only knows!!!!

How are things with you Missy?? Am keen to hear how you are doing!
P.S still thinking bout IVF still in hope our 40% will give us our much wished for bundle of joy!!! xxxxxx

oh my gosh! 5 days late .... eeek! your brain must be on overdrive right now. well maybe the procedure did mess up your cycle but then maybe not. how long will you leave it before you test? do you have any symptoms at all?

urgh, i wish i could say things are good haha but i'm struggling since the mc. i'm ok, i havent fallen apart or anything but i just feel angry that i finally bloody got pregnant after all this time and then not cool. i'm in my 2ww at the moment and i had a lot of ovulation pain this time but it seemed to be on left side, unfortunately my left tube is blocked so i'm not going to get my hopes up. i hate the waiting, its taking FOREVER!

 

[sparklexox]

Its so weird both our left sides are blocked! Only a woman thats been through a MC can understand! Its so upsetting! Its like were being punnished for what reason????? Trying NOT to be cheesy - we have each other and this site to support us I sent you a PM.

My boobs are sore but think AF coming I can feel it!!!! Will keep you posted!!!

I really hope you get good news soono.
xxxxx

 

[sparklexox]

sorry symtoms...

Sat - When I wiped after toliet small brownish blood was on the tisssue thought it was af?
Sun - wiped again after wee wee spot of red blood on toilet paper again thought it was af?

Since then no blood but today sore boobs and sore tummy?

Fertility clinic said they would do bloods and c if am PG I dnt think I am!!!!

not doing test can't!!! lol
xxxx

 

[a_missy]

sorry symtoms...

Sat - When I wiped after toliet small brownish blood was on the tisssue thought it was af?
Sun - wiped again after wee wee spot of red blood on toilet paper again thought it was af?

Since then no blood but today sore boobs and sore tummy?

Fertility clinic said they would do bloods and c if am PG I dnt think I am!!!!

not doing test can't!!! lol
xxxx

seriously i dont know how women like us dont go completely insane!! oh wait... i have

its awful constantly sign spotting but at the same time having to tell yourself NO so the let down isn't as bad. its good you're in such close contact with the FC though, at least they're helping out and they're not fobbing you off. when are they going to do the blood test for you? what did they say about the spotting?

i felt really positive about things at the beginning of this cycle but to be honest i think its probably the clomid thats making me feel so down now, it messes with your head. around ovulation time i felt like a proper crazy woman haha

 

[RebaRezzelba]

Hi Sparkle - any news yet?

Im on the same boat - TTC for 28 months now - told all was fine and that it was unexplained (without even checking my tubes) so still no BFP and I have been back to the DR to ask for a HSG to see if tubes are blocked. Hopefully it wont take too long to get an appointment (i might actually give them a call now and see what the story is).

Did you have any symptoms that might of suggested you had a blocked tube? The only thing I get that isnt right is the brown spotting for 5 days pre AF - have had it for 10 years or so. Its either a blocked tube i have or Endo - pity you have to have surgery to diagnose Endo.

 

[Springflower]

Hey Missy - Well AF arrived this morning so I phoned up for the HSG test, they are going to let me know Friday afternoon if I have got an appointment for this month. I did as you suggested and asked if I could get my results earlier than November. Apparently we can. I need to send a letter to the hospital and they will send the results to my Dr’s. That makes me feel slightly better. From what people are saying it sounds like you get to see the dye so I’m assuming if it isn’t moving round my tubes I’ll know there’s a problem!! I see you aren’t having a great month, I don’t know what to say other than try to keep your chin up, it’s crappy though. Have beamed some more positive vibes over, hopefully you’ll get them soon.

RebaRezzelba - I too have the browny discharge for about 5 days before AF is due!! It started when I came off the pill, I wonder if that is a problem? I have mentioned it both to my Dr and the hospital consultant however neither seemed concerned, so I stopped worrying about it. I’ll google that when I get home and let you know! (don’t want work to catch me googling “browny discharge”!)

 

[sparklexox]

Hi Missy, They didnt say anthing bout spooting prob dnt wanna get my hopes up!

Spotting again today just when I wiped after wee??? So weird!

I add you

xxx

 

[sparklexox]

Hi Reab, Cannot get over you were told nothing was wrong without getting your tubes checked. Have you had any other testing done? You should call and see a fertility specailist babe! keep you mind a rest one way or another. I just new we had problems gutt feeling!!

xxxx

 

[sparklexox]

Sorry Reba! No spotting that would of suggested blocked tube.
xx

 

[sparklexox]

update once again TOOK PG NEG;( doesnt mean much tho all preg's have been hard to detect.

spotting again today sore & boobs tummy very strange dreams and can't sleep prpb down to worry. Sure Af is coming any day now!!!

HATE THIS WAITING GAME, ROLL ON FCLINIC ON FRIDAY!!!

XXX

 

[a_missy]

hang in there carla! we'll get there eventually x

 

[a_missy]

Hey Missy - Well AF arrived this morning so I phoned up for the HSG test, they are going to let me know Friday afternoon if I have got an appointment for this month. I did as you suggested and asked if I could get my results earlier than November. Apparently we can. I need to send a letter to the hospital and they will send the results to my Dr’s. That makes me feel slightly better. From what people are saying it sounds like you get to see the dye so I’m assuming if it isn’t moving round my tubes I’ll know there’s a problem!! I see you aren’t having a great month, I don’t know what to say other than try to keep your chin up, it’s crappy though. Have beamed some more positive vibes over, hopefully you’ll get them soon.

oh thats great! i'm really pleased you got that sorted it gives you more peace of mind doesnt it? and now you know you wont be left hanging when its all done. i didnt actually see the screen when they did mine but she talked me through it.

and thanks again for the positive vibes dont know what i'd do if i couldnt come on here and have a good bitch about it all haha

 

[a_missy]

Hi Sparkle - any news yet?

Im on the same boat - TTC for 28 months now - told all was fine and that it was unexplained (without even checking my tubes) so still no BFP and I have been back to the DR to ask for a HSG to see if tubes are blocked. Hopefully it wont take too long to get an appointment (i might actually give them a call now and see what the story is).

Did you have any symptoms that might of suggested you had a blocked tube? The only thing I get that isnt right is the brown spotting for 5 days pre AF - have had it for 10 years or so. Its either a blocked tube i have or Endo - pity you have to have surgery to diagnose Endo.

hi rebarezzelba. i had spotting every month before AF. sometimes for a few days, sometimes over a week but in the end they said its more than likely a hormonal thing. when i had an HSG and they found one tube blocked they never once suggested that would have anything to do with the spotting. i was scared about it being endo too but they they said there werent enough other signs to warrant a lap at this stage, they said it was what they considered an invasive procedure and they wanted to try clomid first.

did you get an appointment?

 

[RebaRezzelba]

Hi Sparkle - any news yet?


hi rebarezzelba. i had spotting every month before AF. sometimes for a few days, sometimes over a week but in the end they said its more than likely a hormonal thing. when i had an HSG and they found one tube blocked they never once suggested that would have anything to do with the spotting. i was scared about it being endo too but they they said there werent enough other signs to warrant a lap at this stage, they said it was what they considered an invasive procedure and they wanted to try clomid first.

did you get an appointment?

Hi Missy

I def think the spotting is something other than hormonal cos Ive had all my hormones checked and nothing was ever detected - they were all fine and within normal range.

I have just called the DR and they said a letter was sent to the FS on the 22nd march - the receptionist is gonna call the FS and see if they received it and give me a call back - hopefully the wait wont be long.... And just as im typing this the receptionist has called me to say the FS received it and that there is a back log and that the waiting list is 21 weeks..... thats unbelievable.... pissed off now!

Oh well I will just keep up the acupuncture for another while and hope that can clear any blockages and get me a BFP....

 

[a_missy]

21 weeks? wow thats a serious back log.... i'm really sorry you've got to wait that long, that sucks!

the spotting could be a few different things, all of which they'll look into when you finally get to see the FS. i was really stressed about the spotting i had, i was convinced something awful was going on so I know how you feel. this whole thing is such a waiting game, its really hard but we dont appear to have much choice.... chin up honey you'll get your bfp

 

[keepsmiling]

here is my story
been ttc for nearly 3 years but only properly since we got maried in september,,
had a hsg n thats com4 bak fine, i have pcos
got a appoinmtn with fs in may!!
xx

 

[RebaRezzelba]

21 weeks? wow thats a serious back log.... i'm really sorry you've got to wait that long, that sucks!

the spotting could be a few different things, all of which they'll look into when you finally get to see the FS. i was really stressed about the spotting i had, i was convinced something awful was going on so I know how you feel. this whole thing is such a waiting game, its really hard but we dont appear to have much choice.... chin up honey you'll get your bfp

Hi Missy - Ive already had an FS appointment last year where they just took some more bloods and she did a trans Vag ultrasound to see the lining of womb and said it was nice and thick and that my follicles looked fine. She never even mentioned a HSG or anything like that even though I told her about the spotting - I dont think DR or FS recognise spotting as a problem (but Im convinced it is).

Hopefully the acupuncture will make a difference (however been going for 9 sessions now and still no change - maybe it will take longer).

 

[Springflower]

[/QUOTE]oh thats great! i'm really pleased you got that sorted it gives you more peace of mind doesnt it? and now you know you wont be left hanging when its all done. i didnt actually see the screen when they did mine but she talked me through it.

and thanks again for the positive vibes dont know what i'd do if i couldnt come on here and have a good bitch about it all haha[/QUOTE]

Well I have my HSG booked in for Tuesday at 9:30am - Couldn't believe it when I got the call. Such a relief to know things are moving at last!!

Hope you have a good weekend and enjoy the sunny weather!

 

[Springflower]

Hmm I obviously can't quote yet!!

Hey Keepsmiling - Good name! Glad your HSG was fine, that must have been a relief!

Ladies - what does FS mean?

 

[Whitbit22]

HI ladies. We have been ttc 2 years and 6 months. I tried 4 cycles of Clomid with no luck. I was at one point referred to a FS.. and they were rude to me over the phone so I never bothered. Hubby had a semen analysis and it was good. But now after a renewed wanting to try kick... I am wondering what my next step is? Do I just go to my doctor and say, "I want an HSG?" Or I'd like to try 'this' or what..

I'm only 22! I can't understand what's wrong-- all my bloodwork with hormones and everything was fine. I get frustrated a lot!

My old doctor got in some legal trouble and is no longer my--or anyone's doctor. Which was sad because he was an awesome doctor, just apparently a little bit of a womanizer! I had an ovarian cyst in December, which went away and now my AF is like clockwork. I am having a midwife perform my yearly pap next week. Should I ask her? Maybe she can give me a good idea of what to do next...

I was over at the regular ttc boards and I noticed most of the ladies are on their 1st-4th cycle ttc, or conceived after that long! I know some people are just lucky... but I thought maybe it is time for me to come and get to know some other ladies having the same problems as me.