4 C's Yummy Mummy Thread!

[tbaby]

Hi Loren How are you?


This is not directed towards you loren. This is directed towards Ness and whoever else that doesnt think we are allowed to have opinions and parent the way we feel is right. It is not like I just decided overnight to not vaccinate. I made a very informed decision. Anyways thanks for kicking me off the 4c facebook group for having an opinion.. To Jo who said wiki wasnt a proper source..how about the cdc?

https://www.cdc.gov/vaccines/pubs/pinkbook/downloads/appendices/B/excipient-table-2.pdf

scroll down and you will see two lists...

https://www.cdc.gov/vaccines/vac-gen/additives.htm

 

[calliebaby]

I feel like there are some missing posts or something....I'm lost.

 

[tbaby]

nope its all in the 4c thread I got kicked out of.. so the posts maybe gone.

 

[calliebaby]

gotcha.

 

[Nixilix]

Clearly there are things people don't agree on. People parent different. if we cant discuss without arguing then let's just not discuss.

 

[molly85]

A reasonable source Shan Wiki can be edited by anyone so anything written there should be taken with a oinch of salt.

Living in a modern world none of those extra ingredients particularly scare meas I have personally eatten tin foil when attached to food and lots of sea food has mercuary in it. But your choises are your choises.So lets not argue as Rach said

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

Agreed. We each have the right to choose as we want for our children. No need to go over and over it.

How's everyone feeling? I feel huge. And hungry...always.

 

[molly85]

your allowed to i have a winger on my hands today head is really hurting

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

Head is pounding here too. Abbeys being a handful...she's acting like a toddler already. Into EVERYTHING..shes broken 1 chest of drawers (yes, really), dumped out water, pulled shades down..now shes painted the furniture with biscuit residue 0_o

 

[molly85]

lol whats her walking status?

it never occured to me put abby in her bouncy chair, now shes napping andi am mentally exhausted. stuff to do and just can't move. i really need to get mols walked poor dogs not seen a walk in ages

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

Aww..get that wrap on..its quick.

Abz is in the walker a lot..she HATES being stationary. I have her ont he floor now..shes doing the army crawl lol

 

[molly85]

ouch she could be walking way to soon

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

I know Her daddy is watching her now..I'm supposed to be studying. You see how that's going

 

[Nixilix]

girls - tried on my wedding dress yesterday - cried my eyes out cause it didnt look how i wanted it to

 

[molly85]

oh? what did you want and what did you get?

 

[Nixilix]

I dont know why i didnt like it it just didnt look what i wanted it to look like. i dont think its the dress... i think its the baby weight

 

[tbaby]

well.. i do agree we all have choices. dont think i should have been booted from the 4c fb group for having an opinion. right now i honestly dont give a shit.

jo i would have posted that link in 4c fb but couldnt thats all. i just wanted to show you why i made the choice and with a recognized source and one that cant be edited.

i no longer will be posting in this group. i sat by for months and supported you on your tears when your test was negative or on your happiness when it was positive. i was there for all of you.. diane and i were the only ones left and well its almost like you got what you needed and walked away and you still supported each other. im not including michelle, nicole or diane in this. so you all enjoy each others company i really dont care to be a part of this group where you cant parent how you want or make different choices. its like being in high school again. im to old for this shit.

 

[Nixilix]

You can parent how you want - just no need To debate time and time again..... I don't justify the way I parent cause it's right for me. Same way I don't argue about your choices.

 

[molly85]

I wasn't arguing as i mix what I do even use techniques I previously thought were wrong.

One thingI would say and Di knows this it's dead hard to support others when you have what they want andyoiu got it much easier. I stopped doing nights a long time ago so wasn't even on to chat.

 

[dreamqueen]

aww shany

i dont want you to leave this thread, you have always been there for me. Of course you are allowed an opinion, and i respect the fact that your choices are researched and you weigh up the pros and cons. I would vaccinate and i would do it without thinking twice because in my culture its what everyone does. Maybe i should do the research but i put my trust in doctors. We have different views but i definately respect yours. I dont think you are a bad parent because to be a good parent you do what you think is in your childs best interest and that is certainly what you do. I dont know anyone who has had a bad reaction from vaccination. I also do not know anyone who has contracted a disease that the vaccine is for. I dont think i know anyone who has not been vaccinated. I am sure that if i did my research it may make me think twice about vaccinating.
I dont want us all to fall out Shan, and you have every right to post here and to voice your opinions. It is a sensitive subject because both parties feel critisised for their choices. What is right for one isnt right for the other. Lets have respect for each other ladies and be friends again x