4 C's Yummy Mummy Thread!

[dreamqueen]

i dont doubt that anyone wouldnt want me to get bfp. I know all you ladies do care....and i know its hard to support someone when you have what they want.

Jo, you have always tried to support me too, but i am the one who distanced myself from you when you got pregnant. You got your goal and i never got mine. I felt left behind (not your fault) but our goals had changed.

This group has been a great help to me though. The difference is, before we all had the same goals but now everyone is living the dream so i feel a little out of place in the sense that you are all mothers and you have that in common. Before we all had the hope of bfp in common. I still have that goal but want to thank all that have supported me. Shannon you have always been there and still are and i love you for that, your support means alot. Jo and Loren....you both always keep in touch and i appreciate that alot too. I enjoy catching up with you ladies and seeing how all your lil ones are progressing.

Sorry for babling on! Dont know where all that came from!

 

[molly85]

Hugs Di,

Hoping we won't be in the boat come X-mas (you'll have your ) but i'll be rightback with you peeing on sticks and temping so big hugs and I really don't mind discussing TTC being a mummy is great but not my entire world I am still me.

 

[dreamqueen]

aww i appreciate that jo

how s things going apart from being exhausted?

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

I hate the drama..but just wanna have my tiny say then I'm done.. I didn't ignore anyone..I felt bad that I got that bfp so quickly and you ladies didn't (shan and di) so I felt as if I was rubbing it in and distanced myself from the group..and this time around with it being such a huge surprise, again..I feel horrible as if I'm gloating. But I am def not!! I am hoping soooo much that you get yours soon, Di!!!!

I respect that we all have differing opinions and have made different choices. To each their own.

I love all you girls, dangit. xo

 

[molly85]

it seriously addles your brain and takes up allyour time. as previously discussed it alienates you from none parent friends.

from another angle its faband fun, picking clothes and playing. showing them off snd the pride on ya mums face is brilliant

 

[dreamqueen]

hey Bandy, dont be silly
i know you arent gloating and u all want my bfp! I wouldnt begrudge you girls your babies in the slightest. You all deserve it so much!
Every time one of you got pregnant i was so genuinly happy for you all but as all the numbers kept creeping up i felt pretty left out, again, none of your faults, only that damn mother natures! Haha
it got to the point when it was just me and Shan left with the ache in our hearts and we became close because we shared the same pain. Now shan has her dream too....and i am happier for her than i was for anyone because her ache was the longest next to mines. I still love all you ladies to bits....i just wish i had my dream too and then i could 'feel part' of this group. Just now its not the crazy conception cyber chicks....its the crazy been there and done it yummy mummys!
I am proud of all you ladies.....you have produced wonderful babies and are all amazing mums!
Obviously it was ttc that brought us together, but its the bond that was created at that time that keeps us together. We are a big group of ladies with strong opinions and from time to time we are bound to have disagreements (like all friendships) but the most important thing is that we put them behind us and carry on.

Where has all this emotional speech came from? Lol.
Just wana say i love u all x

anyone heard from Nicole?

 

[calliebaby]

Your ttc in December, jo?

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

You're such a sweetheart Di Now we need to work on that damn mother nature!!! Can't wait till your appointment

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

And yep..she is, Callie lol

 

[molly85]

technically yup. we haven't picked BC yet he can poke his condoms up his bottom. deffinatly need something that won't kill my meagre sex drive as it is. I would like to point outthat Brandy did agree to wait and we ttc together to support each other along cheeky mare. I know its insanity but I figured it will prob take 6 months atleast with our schedules so get going at a slow pace then. so if anyone wants to rejoin the peeing on stick party meet you here on christmas day lol

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

I was hoping to TTC by then..ish. Oct was sounding better. Oops lol.

 

[molly85]

you let me down woman

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

Maybe next time

 

[molly85]

lol jon will kill you

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

He probably would..for real. 0_o

lol, kidding. Ish.

God, the headaches are so bad right now..I have one pretty much constantly, of varying degrees. It's never gone tho That's my whine for the night.

 

[molly85]

it'll go when stop

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

Ha...hasn't been any of that for way too long.

 

[molly85]

noo just under 12 weeks lol

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

oh THAT time!

God I'm tired. It's 9 pm..I haven't studied yet..Abbey is wide awake. Coffee maybe?

 

[molly85]

bonus is the caffiene is split 2 ways