4 dpo crampy on chlomid?

[Glowbug]

So..... Hypothetically. If chlomid does not work for me? What's next? An hsg?

 

[frisbeemama12]

I honestly recommend Vitex.. its an herbal supplement, research it. I am CONVINCED thats what helped us concieve. I started taking it at the end of last cycle (end of aug) and stopped when I was about 2 days into AF because I had to take the clomid days 5-9 of AF. and I read that vitex and clomid counteract each other. well anyway I started taking the vitex again about 3 days AFTER I finished the clomid. Its worth a try and its only about 6 usd for a bottle to you!

 

[ESpacey]

You can have an HSG even while on Clomid. It's just the X-ray they do of your tubes to make sure they're not blocked.

I did tell him, just because if I miscarry I knew I wouldn't be able to hide it. But I'm not really talking to him about it, he's too negative.

 

[sunshine1217]

Glowbug, usually they hve you do the HSG before or during the cycle you're on Clomid. There's no point if your tubes are blocked since the fertilized egg needs to travel down to implant. I found my polyp through the HSG.

 

[sunshine1217]

E, I will pray for you and your sticky bean. So glad to have met you. I guess on a larger scale, the one good thing I did is go to an FS so early on. How did you find yours?

Thank you! I feel the same way seriously, out of all the places in the world we live like 20 minutes away from each other!

My OBGYN referred mine, but I don't think you need a referral. How do you like your FS? You're really lucky you went to one so early. My OB wouldn't refer me to anyone because I am young, healthy, active, etc., just goes to show that you can't judge people on those things. Either way too, skinny, athletic, big, small, old, young, ANYONE can have a problem.

Yea, I switched obgyns and told this current one we've been trying over a year so she sent me. The one before told me to go gain some weight!! She was terrible so I switched.

 

[Glowbug]

Wow!! Thanks ladies. I'll have to ask my doc. Why didn't she recommend this procedure? OY.

 

[ESpacey]

Sunshine, so good that you switched! It's so important to like your doctor!

I got my numbers back, went from 13.5 to 85! I have a scan next week to see the sac and just make sure everything is where it's supposed to be...

 

[Glowbug]

Espacey!!!! That's incredible news!!!!
What do you mean your hubby's negative? He's afraid of losing the baby?

 

[frisbeemama12]

yay!!!!!!

 

[ESpacey]

Espacey!!!! That's incredible news!!!!
What do you mean your hubby's negative? He's afraid of losing the baby?

I'm THRILLED the numbers went up like they did! I know I'm not out of the woods yet, but my doctor said that we should hope for a 26, so an 85 is GREAT!

He's just really 'doesn't want to get excited' anytime I try to be excited at all he shuts it down. "You know what happen last time" "We aren't telling ANYONE until at the earliest Christmas!" (Which I get waiting until 12 weeks, but I don't need you to drill it into me) When I lost my baby two years ago, he would say (and still sometimes does even after explaining it to him 100 times) "well, it's not like you were REALLY pregnant" I was supposed to be 10 weeks, baby measured 6 with no hb, and had to have a D&C, my HCG levels were in the 36,000 range, so I definitely FELT pregnant. It was devastating. He didn't even go to my D&C because he was too busy with work. It took me a long time to get over that one.

 

[frisbeemama12]

Im sorry Espacey.. This one is the one! Fingers crossed that is a Happy and Healthy 9 months!!

 

[ESpacey]

It's okay, I think it made me more independent with this stuff. I told him he's not allowed to go to the scans until I see the heartbeat and then we will schedule one he can go to.

How are you feeling Frisbee???

 

[sunshine1217]

Espacey!!!! That's incredible news!!!!
What do you mean your hubby's negative? He's afraid of losing the baby?

I'm THRILLED the numbers went up like they did! I know I'm not out of the woods yet, but my doctor said that we should hope for a 26, so an 85 is GREAT!

He's just really 'doesn't want to get excited' anytime I try to be excited at all he shuts it down. "You know what happen last time" "We aren't telling ANYONE until at the earliest Christmas!" (Which I get waiting until 12 weeks, but I don't need you to drill it into me) When I lost my baby two years ago, he would say (and still sometimes does even after explaining it to him 100 times) "well, it's not like you were REALLY pregnant" I was supposed to be 10 weeks, baby measured 6 with no hb, and had to have a D&C, my HCG levels were in the 36,000 range, so I definitely FELT pregnant. It was devastating. He didn't even go to my D&C because he was too busy with work. It took me a long time to get over that one.

So glad you're doing well with the beanie! Your DH sounds like mine, MIA. My friends laugh at me b/c I always RSVP for 2 but only I show up all the time. I'll be rooting for you and your sticky bean.

 

[ESpacey]

Espacey!!!! That's incredible news!!!!
What do you mean your hubby's negative? He's afraid of losing the baby?

I'm THRILLED the numbers went up like they did! I know I'm not out of the woods yet, but my doctor said that we should hope for a 26, so an 85 is GREAT!

He's just really 'doesn't want to get excited' anytime I try to be excited at all he shuts it down. "You know what happen last time" "We aren't telling ANYONE until at the earliest Christmas!" (Which I get waiting until 12 weeks, but I don't need you to drill it into me) When I lost my baby two years ago, he would say (and still sometimes does even after explaining it to him 100 times) "well, it's not like you were REALLY pregnant" I was supposed to be 10 weeks, baby measured 6 with no hb, and had to have a D&C, my HCG levels were in the 36,000 range, so I definitely FELT pregnant. It was devastating. He didn't even go to my D&C because he was too busy with work. It took me a long time to get over that one.

So glad you're doing well with the beanie! Your DH sounds like mine, MIA. My friends laugh at me b/c I always RSVP for 2 but only I show up all the time. I'll be rooting for you and your sticky bean.

Thanks Sunshine! I feel so lucky to have the support of you girls. I don't know what I'd do without it

He does the same thing, and to be honest sometimes I'm glad he doesn't go, when he does go he acts like I drug him out against his will! I'm so desensitized to it. Maybe it's those LA boys

 

[Glowbug]

Hmmmm he should've been more sensitive to you at that time.
Hugs. This is it for you! Love and hugs

 

[ESpacey]

Hmmmm he should've been more sensitive to you at that time.
Hugs. This is it for you! Love and hugs

I agree. Took a long time to get passed it, but I came to a point where it was either leave or forgive and move on..

How are you doing Glowbug? How's Alaska? Do you have a website for your photography?

 

[frisbeemama12]

Im doing ok Espacey.. Im worried though.. I dont feel sick at all.. and I was BAD sick with my DD.. this happened with my mmc too..

 

[ESpacey]

Im doing ok Espacey.. Im worried though.. I dont feel sick at all.. and I was BAD sick with my DD.. this happened with my mmc too..

Don't be worried, every pregnancy is different. Besides, you're still super early! Be careful what you wish for

 

[frisbeemama12]

haha true, at this point though I would take the bad morning sickness if it meant that the baby would be healthy :/

 

[ESpacey]

haha true, at this point though I would take the bad morning sickness if it meant that the baby would be healthy :/

I couldn't agree more. I really want morning sickness too. I'm just trying not to stress too much this time. That's all I did with my MMC, and it didn't help anything, just made it all worse. I'm definitely worrying (hints why I'm STILL peeing on sticks every morning), but I'm much more calm than last time around! Like I've said from the beginning when you first started on this thread, we are all in this together!

The only symptom I have is sore boobs, and serious tiredness! That's it though.

When is your due date?