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[Mzitalian25]

Sorry to everyone who thinks they are out this month. Your not 100% out until shows!!! This thread should be a lot of fun next month with all the going on

AFM my temp rose again and I have fingers and toes crossed, and am praying for this blessing!
How is everyone's day going? A year from tomorrow we get married!! and I can't wait!!! We have friends coming in from orlando and then Saturday we are going to Busch Gardens Howl-O-Scream! I have the next 3 days off and will test Sunday. So after I leave work tonight then I will be back on Sunday again unless I check in from my droid in bed at night, im addicted.

I feel like we should all meet or sit in a circle and say: Hi im Tiffany and im addicted to BnB. (even though real addiction is not funny and very serious) But I truley believe addicition is in many forms and this site is one of them!!!

 

[Vrainoire]

Hello everyone hope all is well....
AFM-I just want something to happen..i tested again this morning got another BFN...I just want AF or BFP so i can rule out being one of those ladies who never get a positive on a HPT.

 

[Mzitalian25]

Hello everyone hope all is well....
AFM-I just want something to happen..i tested again this morning got another BFN...I just want AF or BFP so i can rule out being one of those ladies who never get a positive on a HPT.

Did you get blood work done?

 

[Vrainoire]

Hello everyone hope all is well....
AFM-I just want something to happen..i tested again this morning got another BFN...I just want AF or BFP so i can rule out being one of those ladies who never get a positive on a HPT.

Did you get blood work done?

not yet, i have to wait until I miss my next cycle, so I should know somethin on Nov.2nd..chances are i didn't ovulate, so i want to find out why

 

[Bunnigrl3]

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[Mustang_Love]

Bunnie - Aww sorry the CM turned pinkish, still sending lots of though xx

AFM - Did another IC and the line was darker and thicker which is great news and i am now classing it as my

Here it is:

https://i288.photobucket.com/albums/ll182/razcox/DSC_0004.jpg

And inverted:

https://i288.photobucket.com/albums/ll182/razcox/DSC_0004-1.jpg

My temps are nice and stable at 37.08 so just got to wait and see what happend now. If all is going well next week i will ring the doctors and sort out my early scan.

Congrats!!!!!

 

[bigbetty]

Ok well the little bit of pinkish cm went away and period hasnt started, my temps are up, my cervix is very high and I got a ??? Oh well, maybe too early or maybe I will start my period later...?? I'm not sure

Yeah perhaps just a bit early. Wait a few days and try again if AF hasn't come to visit xxx

 

[Bunnigrl3]

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[sma1588]

hey bigbetty- if you dont mind me asking was it hard for you too get prego? also as far asweight gain during pregnancy i have read that your only suposed to gain a little when your overweight does that happen naturaly that you only gain so much or is it different for every person as far as the weight gain? how much have u gained so far......sorry to "pick on you" your the only 1 prego in this area ive seen ...

ive been looking at the weight gain thing so much and pretty much stressing over it because im already over a healthy weight and afraid im going to b the size of a house

 

[Mzitalian25]

Yea I'm gonna, also the more I thought about it the more I think the "pinkish cm" is just from me and my DH having yesterday. Because when I checked my cervix today theres not even a little bit a pink so YAY!

Oh and for those of you who use FF, I noticed today there is a "5" in the "stat" section what does that mean?

DON'T STRESSS!!!!!!

 

[MommyV]

Razcox- I just knew that your test the other day was positive and that totally confirms it. Conrats and I pray that your little bean will stick.

Shanna I know I'm not bigbetty but I have had 2 chldren so I thought I would tell you my experience with being pg as well. I didn't gain much weight at all with both pg's 10lbs and 8lbs. I was just naturally not as hungry I didn't try not to gain but I did try to eat mostly healthy food. I just know that with the help of the clomid you'll be pg very soon and don't worry about the weight gain during pg just listen to your body and try to take care of yourself.

Bunni Your chart looks good hopefully you'll be one of those people who has somewhat late implantation and you'll get that bfp soon. Babydust.

To all you other ladies gl keep up the bding and hopefully we'll get lots more bfp's.

 

[Bunnigrl3]

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[bigbetty]

hey bigbetty- if you dont mind me asking was it hard for you too get prego? also as far asweight gain during pregnancy i have read that your only suposed to gain a little when your overweight does that happen naturaly that you only gain so much or is it different for every person as far as the weight gain? how much have u gained so far......sorry to "pick on you" your the only 1 prego in this area ive seen ...

ive been looking at the weight gain thing so much and pretty much stressing over it because im already over a healthy weight and afraid im going to b the size of a house

Hey love - please don't be sorry for asking questions!!!

I was on the depo for 4 and a half years. I came off it, got my period back within a month or so and got pregnant 6 months after that - so no I had no problems at all really!

I am a bit of an exception where weight gain is concerned because I suffered quite badly with morning sickness and combined with a much smaller appetite means I have lost 2 and a half stone (about 35lbs for those of you in the States). I haven't weighed myself in the last 2 or 3 weeks but the loss seems to have stopped pretty much and my belly is definitely getting bigger so if you take off baby weight then I have probably lost a lot more than that in total!

From chatting with other bigger ladies on my thread (see the link at the bottom of my signature) I don't think weight gain seems to be as much as some slimmer ladies seem to experience, but as with anything every pregnancy is different.

Please don't stress about weight gain - especially during first tri it's sometimes difficult to keep anything down at all so you just have to have what you fancy and not worry about calories or anything! I pretty much lived on cornish pasties and haribo sweets for the first few weeks of my pregnancy!!!!

Oh and I weighed about 20stone 6lbs (286lbs) when I got pregnant so was pretty massive!!! I'm down to just under 18stone now and the lightest I have been for many years

 

[sma1588]

well tahnk you both ladies, that makes me happy what u both said. now im not sooo worried about gaining soooo much when it actually happens.... im more excited now! i was thinking i was going to be over the 200 lbs mark but now i have more hope.....200 is just something that i cant imagine being myself because im having a hard enough time being 160 when i was never over 130. not only has the gain been hard for me too look at its very uncomfy and has caused me to not O and my cycles to be all over the place along with IR and pcos...i blam it all on the progestrone after b/c! sorry for the rant

 

[BrandysBabies]

Betty, you really give me hope! I weight just about what you started at and am working to get some of it off now so that everything will run that much smoother when I conceive. Hopefully now that I have had my Mirena taken out I will be able to lose better. I cant wait to see your little one! I have been stalking you for a while! Lol!

 

[bigbetty]

Betty, you really give me hope! I weight just about what you started at and am working to get some of it off now so that everything will run that much smoother when I conceive. Hopefully now that I have had my Mirena taken out I will be able to lose better. I cant wait to see your little one! I have been stalking you for a while! Lol!

The funny thing is that I actually put about 14lbs ON before I conceived lol! When we first started ttc I was very good - didn't drink, ate healthily etc and every month AF arrived, but as soon as I let my hair down, stopped worrying about things so much and just started eating what I wanted it happened!

I'm glad my story has given you ladies a bit of hope - there is so much scaremongering about bigger women and pregnancy that if you believed everything you read then you would just go crazy! It's tough enough coping with everything that pregnancy throws at you without some stupid 'know-it-alls' sticking their noses in lol!

 

[LittleSpy]

I'm not all caught up on posts (CRAZY 2 days at work) but I wanted to congratulate Raz on her
So excited for you!!!

AFM, not sure how I feel about my chances this cycle. We dtd Saturday, Sunday, and Wednesday. I'm not 100% sure when I ovulated. I originally thought I O'd Monday because Tuesday my Temp was way up (the highest it's been since I started temping 2 weeks ago but not unbelievably high). Then I definitely felt O pain (it's a very distinct sharp pain for me) Tuesday night. Then Wednesday my temp was down again and I still had EWCM. I think Tuesday's temp was a fluke.
Today my temp rose again (way higher than yesterday, but not quite as high as Tuesday).
To make things even more confusing, I've gotten nothing but negative OPKs. I guess I either missed my LH surge or my levels aren't high enough to register positive on the ICs I have. There's been a faint line on most of the ones I've done since last Thursday. A couple of them were slightly darker but were still very far from positive.

So, I'm thinking I ovulated late Tuesday (around midnight). I'm pretty sure FF is going to pin me as ovulating yesterday (assuming my temps stay up). So I'm going to go ahead and consider myself 1dpo today.
I don't feel super great about my chances since we didn't bd Monday or Tuesday (dh was feeling ill) but I know there's still a shot from the bd on Sunday or Saturday and maybe even a small chance from last night, too if his swimmers are fast enough. Yep, just enough hope to drive myself nuts during the next couple weeks.

 

[StarlitHome]

I'm glad my story has given you ladies a bit of hope - there is so much scaremongering about bigger women and pregnancy that if you believed everything you read then you would just go crazy! It's tough enough coping with everything that pregnancy throws at you without some stupid 'know-it-alls' sticking their noses in lol!

There seriously is a lot of scare-mongering...

I don't know, my mom and I are turning out to be scary-similar as far as fertility and everything - she took the birth control pill for a year but stopped because it was making her sick, just like me, for instance.
She got pregnant with me just a couple months after tossing the pill, and we're both about the same size - 5 foot 4-5 inches tall (she's an inch taller than me) and hovering around 200 lbs for the most part.
The only time she gained serious weight during a pregnancy (she had 6 singleton pregnancies after me) was with the twins.

 

[LittleSpy]

Bunni -- I'm sorry, I'm not sure what the 5 means on FF.

The confusion about my actual O date continues -- my temp dropped again today. The good part is that I'm so busy obsessing over when I actually O'd that I haven't even thought about symptom spotting yet. I believe I'm 2-4dpo. That's pretty appropriate since this cycle started wonky with 2 days of spotting. So I'm 2-4 dpo on cd14-16.

 

[Bunnigrl3]

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