4th MC - can't cope anymore

[mrs_lukey]

I'm in the process of MC number 4 and I just can't take it anymore. I don't understand why I can't just get pregnant and have a baby

This pregnancy was the first time we'd conceived since our last MC in March 2009 and I thought we'd finally cracked it.


xx

 

[nicb26]

im so sorry hun. i was diagnosed with a mmc yesterday, my first pregnancy, and am devastated. so i cant imagine how you must be feeling after 4. have you had any investigations into why it keeps happening? im praying that next time your little one will stick xx

 

[charlie_v_o]

Didnt want to read and run.. Im soo sorry for your loss hun, I've had 4 M/c too and its an awful feeling I know. Have the doctors told you anything? xxx

 

[grandbleu]

So sorry 1 is devastating enough...4 I can't even imagine.

Are you allowed now to get testing to see why the pregnancies are not holding?

 

[Lubbird]

I too didn't wanna read and run. Can't begin to imagine what you are going through but you are in my prayers and I'm so so sorry xxxx

 

[3boys]

so sorry hun!

 

[Chilli]

My heart goes out to you my sweet - it's so damned unfair! I've just had 3rd MMC and 2 chems too so I'm with you, BIG HUGS!

 

[zelda]

so sorry for your loss,have you had any testing done

 

[mrs_lukey]

Thanks ladies. I still can't stop crying but am starting to sleep a little again now.

The hospital had refused to test me before as my first MC was 8 years ago with the father of my son and not my husband. They said it has to be 3 consecutive MC's with the same guy. Well now I'm at that stage so I pray they'll do something.

I've got a hospital appt on Tuesday so I hope to know more then xxx

 

[angelcake71]

so sorry hun... it seems so unfair.. xx

 

[mrs_lukey]

It is unfair but I'm not the only person in this situation and I'm sure I won't be the last. There will always be people worse off than me so I need to try and remember I have a loving husband and son but sometimes my emotions overrule my head xx

 

[Yes we can]

So sorry for you loss,i couldn't start to imagine wat you're going through having gone through 3 mmc myself,U're in my prayers

 

[mummylove]

I am really sorry hun ive only had 2 i couldnt imagine 4 my heart goes out to u

 

[Rowan75]

so sorry hon - big hugs x

 

[stardust22]

I am so sorry for what you are having to go through. life is just so cruel sometimes.

I am recovering from my 3rd miscarriage and I am truly rock bottom and very very depressed. I have just started some medication to help me and hoping this will at least give me a reason to get up. I am starting to struggle to see one.

I have been referred to the RMC specialist and also have the blood forms for karyotyping. this is where me and my husband both have our blood checked for chromosone abnormalities. The test takes 2 months to come back and I cant even have it until I get a negative test. Its only a week since my erpc.

It is not only devastating and upsetting, its also a battle to get tests and answers!

I really wish you the very best and hope we are both lucky enough to get there in the end.


xx

 

[ninamama]

So sorry about your losses. I know what your going through.. hugs..I woke up crying again today, my husband kissed me on the top of my head and left for work and now I am alone to deal with it again for the rest of the day. So sad.