ILS I'm thinking the same thing...that I may be showing by ds b'day. I showed early with him, right around the end of first tri and considering someone already told me I was showing, thanks to the bloat and whatnot, and considering they say you show sooner with #2, I'm thinking eventually I'd have to say something. We are having a BBQ in the park for his b'day, and its summer so it's not like I'll be wearing bigger winter type clothes that could hide it.
I loved the belly band with ds. If I could have went longer with it I would have, but there was nothing doing with it after first tri. I'd lost about 70lbs before I fell with my son and I thought I wouldn't show until much further along, but when I couldn't breath I broke down and got maternity clothes, lol. Considering I've lost even more since I had him, I don't think I'll be making further than last time before this little one pops.