5 YEARS! Trying To Concieve, need someone to talk to...

[hl120407]

I can relate. After our last loss I didn't think I could do it anymore. It takes such a toll on everything. Our life had revolved around testing and the calendar for so long. We take breaks and pretend there isn't an elephant in the room but there is.

its so difficult, if you read my post above ull understand more about me, id just love 2 make friends and have people there who understand, ill support anybody who needs it every women deserves 2 b a mum and have a family with the 1 they love xx

Support is so important and sometimes I feel like I am relying on my DH too much when he is hurting too. I think one of the hardest things for me is feeling like I let my DH down. Unless someone has been through it they don't understand the different emotions and feelings that go along with it. I want to be a mom but more then that I want us to have our own family. I am not having the best day so sorry if I'm a downer.

hey hun bfp means big fat positive as in a pregnancy test and bfn means the opposite.
As far as giving advice on what to try i'm not sure hun as everything i have tried so far has ended in a . I know there is a mountain of advice out there, i suppose its researching it and finding out what suits you best individually. Like i tried pink grapefruit juice to increase the production of cm (cervical mucuous) and found that i was gagging everytime i drank it. Now i use robuttissun cough syrup and preseed which both help the little swimmers along

right may have to try all of this and get into this researching! i will get there nobodys told us its not possible so i will get there, every which way possible ill try!! thanks so much for all the advice and kind words you seem a lovely person and i truely hope u get that bfp (check me lol) 1 day soon xxx

 

[hl120407]

right ok lol im getting there now (sort of) thank you!is there anything you'd say we can try neither of us are taking anything or doing anything (apart from the obvious) thank you xxx

DH and I have been trying for 5 1/2 years. The only thing that keep ME sane is having a plan and doing something to try and make it happen. Have you seen a FS or a RE? If you haven't had updated tests within the last 6 months to a year everything could change. There are a lot of options out there that can help. First you need to find out what is the possible cause of you not getting preggers. I hope you can find something that works for you! Good luck!

i had a blood test done a couple of months ago-all ok, my OH got his sa on monday again, but up 2 now no answers y, just keep tryin keep trying! hate those words from our Dr! after OH does his sa they said they'd refer us so theres my hope 2 keep me going xx

 

[laustiredttc]

and that's it hun, hope. just keeping moving forwards and know that you will eventually get there one way or another. Ps you seem like a nice person too huni, dont give up on it all.

 

[hl120407]

and that's it hun, hope. just keeping moving forwards and know that you will eventually get there one way or another. Ps you seem like a nice person too huni, dont give up on it all.

Thank you, kind words and positive thinking from some1 is nice 2 hear, i pray very soon you'll get your bfp!!!

 

[laustiredttc]

thank you so much huni and i pray the same for you. bring on the

 

[hl120407]

thank you so much huni and i pray the same for you. bring on the

WOOHOOO!!!

 

[ttcforever17]

hi
i have been trying for 17 yrs have had 8 transfers of which 3 were early miscarriages, i have pcos and immune issues, i lost 7stone a few yrs ago and unfortunately that didnt help my pcos symptoms either so weight loss does not help everyone.
im going for another 2 fets in the next 6mts if unsuccessful we will look at surrogacy after that although in ireland thats a whole issue on its own

we just really want to be parents i was 18 when i got married and started ttc now im 35 and time is ticking on and although i have a few yrs left im so fed up with being such a failure to my dh, as you can imagine i have made a lot of if friends over the yrs who have all had success and i always seem to be left behind.

 

[karenh]

hi
i have been trying for 17 yrs have had 8 transfers of which 3 were early miscarriages, i have pcos and immune issues, i lost 7stone a few yrs ago and unfortunately that didnt help my pcos symptoms either so weight loss does not help everyone.
im going for another 2 fets in the next 6mts if unsuccessful we will look at surrogacy after that although in ireland thats a whole issue on its own

we just really want to be parents i was 18 when i got married and started ttc now im 35 and time is ticking on and although i have a few yrs left im so fed up with being such a failure to my dh, as you can imagine i have made a lot of if friends over the yrs who have all had success and i always seem to be left behind.

I can't even imagine what you must be going through. I pray that these FET work for you.

 

[laustiredttc]

i am dumbfounded!!! my hat and everything else goes off to you. You must be one strong cookie!! I hope the fets works for you hun i really do.