6 months post D&C. Still no BFP. Anyone else?

[Trying4first1]

Hey ladies!

I had a D&C 6 months ago and am still not pregnant. I know 6 months isn't forever but me and DH have been ttc for 14 months now and it's just getting to me some days. Other days I'm fine but today is one of those days were I'm feeling fed up with it all. Grrrr.
I had another MC early on before my 2nd pregnancy that ended in D&C so I know I can fall pregnant. First time took us 4 cycles then the next took just 3 cycles. This is the longest so far so I guess I'm just not being very patient that's all. I am having testing next month for clotting disorder so maybe it's best I did t get a BFP until after then.

Anyone else getting fed up or finding it's taking longer to conceive since their D&C?

Be great to hear from you

 

[mummy2o]

I'm with you on that. We've been trying since our daughter and had 2nd trimester miscarriages in that time. It's only been 3 cycles since our last miscarriage, but its getting beyond a joke right now, so many people have had babies or are pregnant and even when I do get pregnant I have to wait until 24 weeks until I feel confident in having a baby. Thankfully I have a lot of distractions on and hardly any pregnant people around, so all is good.

 

[Trying4first1]

I'm with you on that. We've been trying since our daughter and had 2nd trimester miscarriages in that time. It's only been 3 cycles since our last miscarriage, but its getting beyond a joke right now, so many people have had babies or are pregnant and even when I do get pregnant I have to wait until 24 weeks until I feel confident in having a baby. Thankfully I have a lot of distractions on and hardly any pregnant people around, so all is good.

Hey mummy2o
I remember you from before. How are you doing? It is just all so unfair isn't it. I just don't understand how people fall pregnant accidentally and have perfectly healthy preganacies. It's so frustrating. I never thought that Ttc would be like his, i was so nieve before all of this.
Hearing your experience too reminds us of how heartbreaking the journey can be. My friend recently lost her baby girl at 21 weeks. It's really not fair. Let's hope positivity resumes again in our lives soon

 

[mummy2o]

I'm with you on that. We've been trying since our daughter and had 2nd trimester miscarriages in that time. It's only been 3 cycles since our last miscarriage, but its getting beyond a joke right now, so many people have had babies or are pregnant and even when I do get pregnant I have to wait until 24 weeks until I feel confident in having a baby. Thankfully I have a lot of distractions on and hardly any pregnant people around, so all is good.

Hey mummy2o
I remember you from before. How are you doing? It is just all so unfair isn't it. I just don't understand how people fall pregnant accidentally and have perfectly healthy preganacies. It's so frustrating. I never thought that Ttc would be like his, i was so nieve before all of this.
Hearing your experience too reminds us of how heartbreaking the journey can be. My friend recently lost her baby girl at 21 weeks. It's really not fair. Let's hope positivity resumes again in our lives soon

I'm doing ok actually. I'm actually nervous getting pregnant now as if I have a baby or another 2nd trimester loss, it will be my last try. Early miscarriage no issue there. I know a loss is hard regardless of how far along and emotionally its really taken a toll, not sure health wise as I've pregnant for 9 months in the last 18 months, so sure that can't be good. I agree about being naive about it all. Even after my son I was as he was the perfect pregnancy. No sickness, just kicking and everything was fine. After him it all went down hill. I'm sorry to hear about your friend also. I think I remember you from that. But lets shake of those bad vibes and get back in the game and get some eggs fertilised.