6 months + since mc and no luck getting pregnant... Come join me in the wait!!

[kelly1973]

I booked a smear for tomorrow now im thinking I should cancel as abit close to ovulation what do you ladies think?
cd4 mrs kitty I really hope this is your month id like to say we could be bump buddies but it takes me forever and a day

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Anniebobs]

I also asked before mine Kelly and they just say so long as you haven't had a positive test it shouldn't make a difference (I had it early in the tww)

 

[Nataliek]

Smiler I completely agree with Mrskitty, once you have your 8 week scan you will feel much more relaxed. I know spotting is terryifying, especially when you have multiple losses, but it is so common. Like I said before, I had it a lot throughout my pregnancy with Ethan and had a completely normal pregnancy. Try and hang in there, when do you start your new job?

Mrskitty the tww is agony I know!! I am so hopeful this is it for you, we need some good news on here.

Kelly, I hope this is your month too. It seems to be taking me longer to get pregnant nowadays as well. Hard to be patient!!

Anniebobs! How are you feeling????

I got my period yesterday, hurray! Lol. That would explain my doom and gloom mood yesterday morning. I go in for cycle monitoring and new meds tomorrow morning, if this one doesn't work, were taking an IUI break. I'm praying it does. Going to do acupuncture the whole time, I have nothing to lose by trying it!

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

yeh I got my smily face today on opk so fingers crossed
I think im guna try accupunture, I had mine through my back last time is there special acupuncture fertility places in the uk?

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

after reading that im guna see if I can find somewhere

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

I need to sell more hens lol

 

[MrsKitty]

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[kelly1973]

ouch!!!

 

[Nataliek]

Hi Girls - I went in for my cycle day 3 monitoring this morning, picked up my new medication, drove to work and had a complete meltdown. I cannot do this again, inject myself and go through it again right now. I am not ready. I called the pharmacy and the manager agreed to take the meds back because I just picked them up this morning, even though they aren't supposed to he was really nice about it. Too much money to waste. We are going to keep trying the old fashioned way for a few months, combined with the acupuncture. I gave myself a good talking to, I am being way to agressive because I feel so desperate to get pregnant again I am willing to inject myself with drugs even when it's unecessary for me. I ovulate fine on my own and all it did was mess my cycle up and throw the timing off this month! It makes me wonder why the doctors would even suggest this protocol for someone who has my history. My husband said he didn't want to say anything to me but he doesn't like the clinic and loading me up on drugs but wanted to go with whatever I wanted to do. We are going to just focus on the naturopath and try enjoying each other again.

Sorry for the long winded post, I feel so much better that I made this decision.

 

[kelly1973]

I think you have made the best choice I think the acupuncture will help tons too we will all get our rainbows for sure xx

 

[MrsKitty]

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[Nataliek]

Thanks so very much mrs kitty and Kelly, I feel like I haven't been very supportive on here, I'm sorry. I've been really tense and stressed about all of this and it's taken a toll on me thinking about this treatment again. I am excited to move forward and I am going to be positive, no negative thoughts.

I didn't read the article, mrskitty but I will right now! How are you hanging in there?

How about you Kelly? You're in the tww now!!

 

[amanda111308]

Hi ladies. I hate that despite my scan i still can't relax. Still getting spotting and niggly tummy ache. Trying to stay positive but really hard, esp with hubby away for another 11 days. My in laws are great but I am not sure what I would do if I miscarry while I am here x

Hey hun, I know it's difficult to stop worrying but it's very true what the other lovely ladies have said on this forum. Today you are pregnant and whatever will be will be. Enjoy right now I wasted my entire first tri scared to death and over thinking everything. I feel like everything is going to work out for you this time around . Chin up hun and just relax!

 

[amanda111308]

Hi Girls - I went in for my cycle day 3 monitoring this morning, picked up my new medication, drove to work and had a complete meltdown. I cannot do this again, inject myself and go through it again right now. I am not ready. I called the pharmacy and the manager agreed to take the meds back because I just picked them up this morning, even though they aren't supposed to he was really nice about it. Too much money to waste. We are going to keep trying the old fashioned way for a few months, combined with the acupuncture. I gave myself a good talking to, I am being way to agressive because I feel so desperate to get pregnant again I am willing to inject myself with drugs even when it's unecessary for me. I ovulate fine on my own and all it did was mess my cycle up and throw the timing off this month! It makes me wonder why the doctors would even suggest this protocol for someone who has my history. My husband said he didn't want to say anything to me but he doesn't like the clinic and loading me up on drugs but wanted to go with whatever I wanted to do. We are going to just focus on the naturopath and try enjoying each other again.

Sorry for the long winded post, I feel so much better that I made this decision.

I too think it is wise of you to stick to the naturopath approach in ttc. Iui is great and all for some but it doesn't seem worth all the undo stress. Acupuncture and relaxation/massage did wonders to help me de-stress and bam pregnant! It might take a few months to catch the egg but I think it's a great move in the right direction! Big hugs to you and your hubby for keeping faith and moving forward together!!

 

[Smiler79]

Well ladies trying not to get hopes up but no more tummy ache and no spotting for two days in a row. Hubby time away is really dragging though as still got 8 sleeps til he is home x x

 

[kelly1973]

smiler hope the times passes by quickly for you xx