6 years of BFN's:(

[Sandra B]

Hi... As you can guess we've been ttc #1 for 6 years now. I'm 32 and I've had 4 failed iui's and many months of BFN's. Today I'm 11 dpo. (FF says 10). This has been the oddest cycle for me yet. Usually I get sore boobs 4 - 5 dpo and I haven't gotten them yet. My Temps are the highest they've ever been the past 2 mornings and I've been having mild af cramps since 7dpo. I've also had this weird yellowish/off whitish jelly cm on and off since 8dpo. I've never experienced that in the 6 years I've been at this. And I've received 2 BFN's the past 2 days. I'm just looking for some hope I suppose. Or anyone who has experienced any of this and what their outcome was? I know better than to get excited. I've learned that lesson way too many times, but obviously I'm past that point this month lol I've definitely let my hopes get up. Thanks in advanced

 

[Nikky86]

Just stop by and saw your post i been trying for 6 years and with doctors about 2 years my problem was ovulation and with clomid i ovulate but no succes

what has doctor told you ? have they determine the cause

Aslong as the temp is high is a good chance baby dust to you

i know how this is a war that never stops

Hi... As you can guess we've been ttc #1 for 6 years now. I'm 32 and I've had 4 failed iui's and many months of BFN's. Today I'm 11 dpo. (FF says 10). This has been the oddest cycle for me yet. Usually I get sore boobs 4 - 5 dpo and I haven't gotten them yet. My Temps are the highest they've ever been the past 2 mornings and I've been having mild af cramps since 7dpo. I've also had this weird yellowish/off whitish jelly cm on and off since 8dpo. I've never experienced that in the 6 years I've been at this. And I've received 2 BFN's the past 2 days. I'm just looking for some hope I suppose. Or anyone who has experienced any of this and what their outcome was? I know better than to get excited. I've learned that lesson way too many times, but obviously I'm past that point this month lol I've definitely let my hopes get up. Thanks in advanced

 

[Sandra B]

It's a complete mystery what the cause is unfortunately. I've had lap surgery and they found everything in working order. My husband is perfectly normal as well. I wish there was a solid issue so I could attack the heck out of it lol thanks for you positive comments. And I hope you find success with clomid in the near future

 

[Sandra B]

Bump

 

[KatO79]

I'd say try an HPT again at around 13-14 dpo, you should get a BFP around there if you're pregnant. Maybe also try with a FRER?

Have you considered trying IVF? DH and I were diagnosed unexplained infertility after all the testing. IUIs didn't work for us either though, we went through 6 of them that all ended in BFNs/AF. Started IVF and #1 resulted in a CP while #2 resulted in my current bean and I'm a little over 8 weeks today.

 

[Ltweety]

Well with my last bfp I got a negative on 11dpo and a positive on 12dpo, although very faint. So it's definitely possible! Good luck!