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[Ceejay123]

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[kit10grl]

i have half siblings on both sides of my family from after my parents broke up. There are quite big age gaps between me and the siblings so its not quite the same but thought i would offer my two cents anyway.

I lived with my mum growing up and when she had my half sister we were brought up the same as i had with my other sister. As a result we are all quite close and i see them both as my sisters. However my dad had other children and because i never lived with them we were never as close and i do think of them as half sisters. On a daily basis i probably have the same level of relationship with them as i do with my nephews. So i would say your OH son will probably not be as close to your son as his mothers other child. Sorry if thats not really what you wanted to hear.

On the other side my dads new woman really doesnt like my mum and despite this they never really tried to interfere with the other sibling IYKWIM. It is hard to say wether the ex is holding enough of a grudge to be mean to a child but fingers crossed for you. I really hope things work out for you.

Sorry if im rambling im really tired lol not sure i got over the point i was trying to make

 

[TiredNurse27]

I think it's the mum's choice if her LO sees your child really. If you go out with someone whose about to have a baby with another woman it's going to be complicated and you can't really justify moaning about it when things don't go your way!

My son sees his dad who has a baby (now nearly 5 years old) with the woman he left me for, and sees his brother too, but that's my choice she doesn't get a say in it in any way shape or form.

 

[Ceejay123]

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[mskellydenise]

If you OH and his ex have a mutual hatred of each other I dont think your LO would ever be around her family...Your little one will have you, OH, your family, and OH family...ofcourse he will see his half-brother when he is with you...see really doesnt have much of a say in the relationship you and LO have with her son if you are with OH...he is entitled to spend time with his child...if you are with him that means you will be a part of his son's life also...enjoy your family and dont worry about what hateful irrelevant ppl think of you! Congrats on baby!!

 

[mskellydenise]

I think it's the mum's choice if her LO sees your child really. If you go out with someone whose about to have a baby with another woman it's going to be complicated and you can't really justify moaning about it when things don't go your way!

My son sees his dad who has a baby (now nearly 5 years old) with the woman he left me for, and sees his brother too, but that's my choice she doesn't get a say in it in any way shape or form.

I think if the child spends time with his father then its the dad's choice as to whether or not she is involved...if a man is a father to there child and is in a committed relationship with someone else the childs mother doesnt have the right to say the child cant he around the other woman out of spite or jealous...imho...i think when women dont want there children around the person their ex has moved on with it has a lot to do with jealousy and wanted the man back...again just my opinion.

 

[Ceejay123]

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