6months post dc and still not pregnant, anyone else?

[firsttimer123]

Hi ladies... Looking for some people in a similiar situation. I had a mmc in December, ended up having a dc for prolonged bleeding in March and now have still not gotten pregnant again, trying for our first... Just super frustrated. Would be nice to chat with others who are struggling after mc to get pregnant again. I feel like we're doing everything right! I do have appt with fertility clinic at theend of july. Currently cd5

 

[jtink28]

i didn't have a d&c - i had a natural miscarriage on january 13th. we've been trying ever since, and nothing. i'm getting frustrated, too. i saw an RE last week, and all my levels are good, he thinks i'll get pregnant soon, but it's frustrating. possible luteal phase issue, so he's got me on progesterone just in case (i have short 24-26 day cycles).

it's so frustrating.

 

[firsttimer123]

Did you have any problems prior to mc? I got pregnant right away so I just don't get it! And until now, no one would see me to do any testing... I have a regular 28 day cycle as of the last 3 cycles but I don't get ewcm really anymore like I did before mc. It's so frustrating! I want to blame my dc just because it makes me feel like there may be a solution. Everyone just tells me to wAit it out.

 

[HungryM3]

I know how you feel. First time it took one month to get pregnant but that ended in a MMC. Second time it took 8 months and that also ended in a MMC. What's the chances!! Now onto 3rd cycle of TTC for number 1 still. It's been a long 16 months.

 

[firsttimer123]

It's crazy I see so many friends/siblings just get pregnant, no work! People just don't get it! It's hard for us being our first, I just want it so badly! Have you gone for any testing?? End of this month is our babies due date, I really thought it would be okay. And I would be pregnant but it's not the case, I'm scared for the day. I already feel like I crumble so easily these days.

 

[Trying4first1]

Hi first timer. I had a D and C back in April and a MC in December. Cycle 4 ttc now and just not feeling as hopeful anymore. I know 4 cycles isn't long but it feels long enough. Been trying for a year now which I know isn't long compared to some people. Just its so frustrating, I feel your pain

 

[coucou11]

I'm here D&C in November, then nothing until May, and then just another MC. Hoping this next round isn't another 6 month wait. I'm going in for testing soon, hoping to get an HSG (ultrasound with dye) next week to check for scarring. Trying to stay positive! Sorry to all you ladies for your losses.

 

[Trying4first1]

So sorry for yours too. How frustrating. Having a loss is hard enough without it taking ages to conceive again. Hope your testing goes well. Here I need to have 3 MCS before testing, so this is our last try before investigations begin. Just hope next one is sticky!

 

[OmarsMum]

It took me 13 months to get pregnant after D&C (mmc), we were ntnp , but the pregnancy just ended up 2 days back at 11w when the scan confirmed blighted ovum xx

 

[HungryM3]

A lot of people definitely do not understand how frustrating this is for us. I've been told to take it easy. Relax and be patient, it will happen. Only because of how easy it is for them. anyways, venting aside, I was 'lucky', for both my MMC, my doc did chromosome testing on the baby. One came back perfectly normal and one had trisomy. Until now, no idea why the first died.... Other than that she's done the first layer of blood tests like thyroid and everything is normal. She didn't run the rest as the results came back for trisomy and said she's not too worried as we have an explanation, and trisomy happens. Basically we didn't check for anti clotting, mthfr and nk.

Sorry to see so many of us here. I really do hope we get our rainbows soon.

 

[firsttimer123]

It's frustrating because we all got pregnant. So it should be simple, just get pregnant again. Our bodies worked once! Just makes me think something changed or was affected by dc or mmc. I had an u/s done which came back fine but just doesn't seem like enough testing or verification. I hope we all have some positive news in our near futures, my hopeful is a 2016 baby!

 

[mummy2o]

After my first miscarriage it took me a year to get my daughter. I've been trying to get pregnant again since my daughter and had 2 2nd trimester losses since her, so I feel your pain, I really do. I was due two 2015 babies and one should be here by now, but I'm positive 2016 will bring better news

 

[firsttimer123]

I wonder wh IT takes so long for some of us

 

[wife1stmum2nd]

I am in a similar position, we had a MC in Feb this year and we started TTC straight after but 5 cycles on and we are still waiting. I'm so impatient and with our DS we conceived 2nd month so it makes me even more impatient thinking we did it quickly then why can't we now!!

 

[HungryM3]

I am in a similar position, we had a MC in Feb this year and we started TTC straight after but 5 cycles on and we are still waiting. I'm so impatient and with our DS we conceived 2nd month so it makes me even more impatient thinking we did it quickly then why can't we now!!

I don't understand why it seemed so easy the first time and now i can't seem to get pregnant!!!! Wonder when i will ever have my rainbow baby…..

 

[KTJ006]

Hey ladies (hi Cou!!)....first, I'm sorry for everyone's loss. It's a shame we have to go through and understand the fear of loss. I feel like any pregnancy I have will be laced with nervousness and fear of the worse. I guess it makes us appreciate the experience even more.

I have been pregnant 4 times. Each of those times we fell pregnant on the first try. We have always used the Clearblue Fertility Monitor which tells us when I ovulate. I have 2 kids and have had 2 losses. The last MC was in October which resulted in a D&C. We haven't been able to fall pregnant since. And we never had an issue before. I too, think something happened stemming from the MC or D&C. I just don't know. I've had some weird things happening since everything and am actually scheduled for a laparoscopy on Wednesday to check things out. I hope they are able to tell me something, otherwise I will truly go crazy. It just doesn't make sense that we cannot get pregnant again when we've had no issue before. Something has to be going on, right??

Fingers crossed for all your ladies. I feel like I want to live in my own little bubble. Here's hoping we can all find answers

 

[firsttimer123]

I have my apt this Thursday, going to feel like a long wait. I did cb digi opks this month and charted my bbt so I am fairly certain I ovulated... It's like what else can it be!