I had 1 of mine out 3 weeks ago, sounds like I got lucky.
I have a lovely dentist, who knows just what he's doing and is very careful. He said it was actually a slightly harder / more difficult extraction than usual, but I can't say I noticed. Getting numbed up didn't bother me much, and the extraction itself took about 5 minutes of wriggling and pulling. I was surprised it came out when it did, I honestly thought it would feel horrible once the actually came out, but I didn't even notice until he said he was done. The trying to losing it is much worse than the extraction.
Bled for about 5 minutes, and that was it. No pain at all, not after the numbing wore off either. Rinsed with salt water several times a day and just followed the guide lines. No swelling, no bruising, no pain and no dry socket. 3 Weeks later I still haven't dared to look or touch the 'hole' with my tongue to see what it's like, but I'm completely used to it now and eat as normal again =)