Hello all, first thing to say, wish you all merry xmas and happy new year from me and Billy- my lil man! I need to get this out of my chest before I go explode! PLEASE do aware my english/explaination may not be clear, if you dont understand, dont feel bad to ask. Right, my son's fontanelle got a lump - possibly called Haemongioma (birthmark) as it started to show up when he was around 6 weeks old. I got him to the hospital at the beginning of December after not satisafied with the GP, and my son had an ultrasound scan to check everything was ok, and was told nothing to worry about as it is nothing serious and tells me that if the lump is getting bigger or change shape or change colour or whatever, get him back to the hospital. Now it buggers me, my OH's mum - my mum in law - is still worried and concerning about that lump, and is very much annoying that my Oh listens to her and my oh demand me to get my son an appointment to see a doctor in January after his mum suggested that she rings Birmingham Childrens Hospital as she can explain what it looks like to them and she already did after I told my husband if she want to do this thats fine and I dont want to go thru over again by gettin him back to the hospital etc and she wants me to get doctor to do a referral to Birmingham childrens hospital where they have a special unit for birthmark. I feel that the mum in law treats my son as if it is her son something like that. and my oh said his Dad will help me out if my son is being referring to Birmingham Childrens Hospital. I was told that it is nothing to worry about now they made it worse! Oh I wish they haven't done that to bug me and worrying me ever more but my son is fine! And other thing - my husband had told me that he will try to get my son to bring him over to bham where his parents live so they can see his growing because my dad always come up to my house every 2/3 weeks depends on his work to see him as its his first grandson and he loves him!! Make me feel that my OH get what he wants not me, because his parents already got granddaughter. My Oh dont like my dad to see my son more often, I told him tough shit also told him I can continue to use webcam to let his parents see Billy more often as I can, but he wont have it! I dont know what to do - as I cant stand up to them and said to them to shut up and I do my way if nothing serious for my boy.