A little bit of guy advice please?

totallyashley

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So as many of you may know I am not longer with FOB which I have kinda come to terms with now and am in a good place.

I have a friend who I have know since I was 7. We met at disneyland Florida when we were both on holiday in Florida all those years ago. Our parents got on well and I got on well with his sisters so we met up a lot that holiday and we have stayed in contact ever since. One of their sons and my friend, Nicky started to work in Spain ages ago so we have met up a few times. He is literally one of the nicest guys I know. He is very respectable and down to earth yet really funny and sweet. He is pretty career and family focused too. So he is coming over to London for work for the two weeks at the start of August when my family are away. He said that he would come down and hang out with me when he is not in meetings so I am not lonley seeing as I am not with FOB anymore. He use to always joke that I was his english wife and when I split up with FOB he said he would take me out on a proper date.

Now I am nearly 100% sure he likes me, I would say 99.8%. You know when you just get that feeling? He is really cute, like REALLY cute and he has not been with many girls and treats them well. If I wasn't pregnant I would not even think twice about going out on a date with him and hooking up but I am pregnant and now I am just doubting it all. I don't want to cause friction between me and FOB and I dunno why but it just feels weird going on a date when I am carrying another mans baby. Also I don't want him to feel some what responsible to be there for me or Daisy. Should I just bite the bullet and stop being silly?
 
go for it!!!
i am living proof... if its meant to happen it will!! and friends make the best boyfriends :hugs:
let us know xx
 
Thanks. I think I just need to know I am doing the right thing and I will feel better. I will let you all know but he isn't over for a while...
 
I think go for it! Life is too short to wonder what if............xox
 
I think the worst thing that can happen that is that you go on a date and realize its not for you, you should try it, its better knowing then thinking what if
 
Go for it! If its not right you'll still have him as a good friend I'm sure:) Sounds rather exciting!
 
Im not suppose to be in this forum...yet. Hope you all don't mind me posting!

if you're under 18 hun you shouldn't be using BnB on the baby forums as it keeps within the law on teen pregnancy :flower:


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FInd out what he wants, if he seems into you and well by now he knows your pregnant so thats a good sign. its def a love interest yes and not a friendly one? I would be careful but not because i suspect him or anything but thats just me. Maybe he wants a family and wants to take care of you, hard for any to say here but you have to find out what he wants. Sounds promicing and I do hope you get the answer you want. As for FOB if you arnt together then that dosnt mean you have to stay alone for the rest of your days as i bet he dosnt.
 
I'm 20:) you girls are just more interesting...

oh okay :flower: sorry if it seemed like a mean post just didn't want to get you in trouble and I know what you mean I'm 19 and I prefer it here as well :haha:
 

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