A little bit stumped..

[Pheonixsmummy]

Soo, now I'm about 13 weeks and I am totally lost. At first I wanted nothing to do with this baby considering it wouldn't have a father and my family is an utter mess, but now... No matter how hard I try I just can't work up the nerve to get rid of it. I really want to keep it, but I feel like I can't.. Anyone have any advice?!

 

[jozylynn896]

I felt the exact same way. I wanted to END my pregnancy immediately. I thought because my family is broke, they're all f*cked up, and my boyfriends a dick, I can'y do it. I knew I wasn't ready to bring a baby into the world. I made an appointment with an Abortion Clinic here in Chicago and I was for sure going to do it.. Then they called me and I just couldn't do it. I basically told them that they had the wrong number. I told my boyfriend "I'm keeping the baby so I don't know what you want to do but you're gonna be a dad." He was actually a real fucker about it, saying I should just get an abortion and what not, which f*cking killed me since we had been together for about 2 years. and I told my mom and she was supportive, and now I'm living with my OH and his family, and I am so glad I didn't get rid of our baby. Honestly when I think that I would have killed the baby, I feel so disgusted by myself. When I look at his ultrasound pictures and feel him kick, its the best f*cking feeling ever and I wouldn't trade it for the world.
I guess all I can tell you is DON'T DO IT IF YOU'RE NOT 100% sure that that's what you want to do!
Cause its something you'll regret. I'm glad I didn't you might be too
Good luck and stay strong!

 

[ClairAye]

I'm not sure if this will get locked as we don't talk about the 'A' word here, but if you have any doubts at all, then that is your answer right there Good luck!

 

[MiSS.M0MMY2BE]

There's always adoption, instead..

 

[x__amour]

Heads up, chick. We try and stray away from the "A" word here.

I hope you can figure things out.

 

[booflebump]

Discussion of abortion out with the ethical prenatal loss section is not permitted. Thread locked