A little help on what to say to my mom.

[missynz]

when i did my first test and it ws positive i took it into my mother who was in the bath and asked her if i read it correctly lmao

 

[peace]

My mum text me last night after saying:
'I am not angry but we need to talk - think u are foolish to even think abt keeping it - could be biggest regret of your life and i think it will be - dont have to stay at chris's i am not going to throw you out on the street and i will always love you whatever you decide'

its a better reaction than i expected, but not quite the one I hoped for in all honesty. I don't want to have to talk her around to the idea. Oh well, I feel better knowing she knows though. Dreading 'the talk' though. haha. xx

 

[FayDanielle]

Least she knows now hun and you know you have her support regardless

She will come round to love your LO.
All Mums get worried about their children, im sure we'll all be the same when our LO's tell us theyre having children!
x

 

[peace]

Yeah, I'll just listen to what she has to say and reason with her.
Haha I can't bare to think about my LO having children! I'm sure it will be ok though.

Thanks for your advice and support, you've really helped me. xx

 

[FayDanielle]

Yeah, I'll just listen to what she has to say and reason with her.
Haha I can't bare to think about my LO having children! I'm sure it will be ok though.

Thanks for your advice and support, you've really helped me. xx

Your welcome
Thats what we're here for! xx

 

[mayb_baby]

I'm no help as I haven’t a notion what to do in these situations as my mum guessed but
Good Luck
xxx

Edit: say her reaction at least she has time to think and eventually she will be 100% on your decision too, her text sounds very reassuring xxxx

 

[sleepinbeauty]

It doesn't matter if you sister is pro-choice or not. It's your body, your CHOICE. As a pro-choicer she should be able to understand that.

 

[happy-evie]

what do you want to tell her? make a list i guess n maybe we cn help?

About what I plan to do in regards to Uni, whether to defer for a year or not. How me and my boyfriend are gonna get a place together in december, stuff like that. I'm not sure whether it's really relevant to say atm or not though? I just want to reassure her that I'm not going to fuck my life up basically lol.

veryy similar position to me...i think ill tell my mum nxt week maybe... and im gonna be moving in with my man aswell plus i got my uni situation

 

[WhiteGeisha]

I'm not technically a teen but love to forum hop and found myself here.

i'm 24 and my mother is the biggest prude in the world when it comes to ME. My brothers have all been allowed to have girls stay the night, me have a fella - NEVER!

I had split up with my bf by the time I tested positive for being pregnant. I had a feeling I was as I got symptoms as early as a week after conception.

I was so worried about telling her as I lived at home still. When the morning sickness kicked in I had to tell her as I couldn't explain the reason as to why i was constantly throwing up.

I just got up one morning, walked into the living room and said without stopping for air "mum, i'm pregnant, i'm sorry, it wasn't supposed to happen but it has"....

Well, she said "oh fucking hell".....hugged me, then asked if I was sure. I told her yes positive and that I was having the baby and went to the bathroom.

She told my stepdad and that was that.

I know you think that your mum might go off on a mad one etc but seriously you may be surprised.

I wouldn't do it over text. Maybe a letter or face to face would be better x

 

[lushious09]

wasnt as hard for me as im not a teen but she knew summit was up as my b.f was round alot and i was upset alot/crying on him etc then she came into my room just after hed gone and she asked me what was going on i just literally showed her the pregnancy tests and she asked well are you and i just said either that or both tests are wrong lol she was actually rather kool about it ... my dad...not so much

 

[WhiteGeisha]

Sorry hun, I didn't read all the thread before I replied, came on to see how you had got on and saw mum had been told before my reply above

Have you been home and spoken since she read your letter and sent you that text?x

 

[newmommy23]

I wrote my mom a note telling her how scared i was, and that i knew she'd be angry but i really needed her help and support. she took it really well!

 

[newmommy23]

glad your mom was supportive. i hate how people say it will ruin your life. its not what we need to hear >.<

 

[peace]

She did say that to me when I got home and had our 'talk'. She is more favourable towards the other option, which I can't talk about. I dunno she's stressing me out atm, she keeps asking what i've decided, - my letter explained what I was doing. I know she just wants the best for me. Ty all x

 

[MommyGrim]

Don't worry, my mom was exactly like that, she was worried about my future and everything. Now she's absolutely great about it all! Cause she can see how dedicated I am to make my future better for me and my LO. Everything will work out just fine. =]