A little support, a little whine.

[Amber_Lynn822]

Well my baby brother's wife just gave birth to their second child. Both of their children were accidents. And although my heart is filled with so much joy for him it is all filled with so much sorrow for me. Four long years I have tried everything and anything and still... We wait... It sometimes feels SO unfair. I'm sorry friends I just had to get it off of my chest.

 

[Skoer1360]

My SIL (though granted she's older) found out she was pregnant on her first try the month I found out I had an LPD and though I was happy for her deep down (very.. very deep down) I was quite sad for me

 

[trying hard]

sorry hun

 

[Amber3]

hm I know the feeling. I hope you will have your baby soon.
Best wishes,
Amber

 

[blueeyedgirl1]

*hugs*

Two women my OH works with announced they were pregnant within a week of each other. Both in their early 40s, not planning (or wanting) babies, both complete accidents. One was even on birth control. *sigh*

But they're happy and I try to be happy for them. But especially when AF comes round and I see them I always get quite down. It's only natural I think.

 

[Damita]

 

[StorkStalker]

Well my baby brother's wife just gave birth to their second child. Both of their children were accidents. And although my heart is filled with so much joy for him it is all filled with so much sorrow for me. Four long years I have tried everything and anything and still... We wait... It sometimes feels SO unfair. I'm sorry friends I just had to get it off of my chest.

It is unfair.. And I fully understand that you feel joy as an aunt and for your brother, but are filled with sorrow for yourself.. I feel that way with newborns, I´m happy they are well and all... but why not us? When will it be us?? I can only hope it´s soon... I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.. I´ve also been in this road 4yrs+.. it is harder than I ever thought it would.. I hope you can have your joy soon!!!

 

[Amber_Lynn822]

Thank you everyone for the wonderful support. I try so hard to be positive, but sometime we have to break down. I love the support this site offers

 

[zanDark]

aw hun I know the feeling

lots and lots and lots of babydust

 

[cooch]

This is sh*t!!

At least its your bro's baby and not on your hubby's side. That would be worse. At least this one is a close relative (that's kind of the way I think of it). When SIL fell accidently I though I would have thrown myself off a bridge, I still can't come to terms with it. The only saving grace is I live far too far away to see her. xx

 

[NellyVille]

The way you feel is perfectly natural hun. This site is full of women feeling the exact same way so don't feel bad about wishing it was you. xx

 

[ayaycomly]

The only saving grace is I live far too far away to see her. xx