MrsR
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Hey guys!
as you might already know in a few months me n hubby are planning to ttc#3!
but i had some shock news tonight!!!!
my dad (48 ) (i'm 22) and his newly wedded wife (40) have ALSO decided to ttc #1 together - she has 3 kids from previous partner and my dad has me n my sis!!!!!
We have kept the fact we plan to try again quiet.... noone in the family knows and i wouldn't say until i fell and was 12 weeks just because of the constant attention and Q's it brings!!!
should i wait? or just stop at the two i've already got? it seems more than a bit strange to have a baby bro/sis and a new baby son/daughter!!!!
i'm also worried that i might put them off trying if/ when i announce i'm preg or trying or even worse... they think i'm trying because they are (i know its silly but i think women always fear that within family or close friends!!)
this is the first time ive seen my dad happy in such a long time!!!! he deserves this chance at fatherhood!! ( just to add my dad lives in france and has done since i was 18mnths old, we've always had contact but didn't see him much in my early years... he's done a lot of growing up and has lived his life; mum n him feel preg very young with me, and i really feel like he deserves a shot at the full time business with the woman he loves!!! )
what do you think? i am so shocked and happy for him i can't think straight at all!!!! i know he wasn't betting on me having any more and i think this is why they announced it!!!
is there anyone in the same situation as me or my dad that could give me a different viewpoint?
as you might already know in a few months me n hubby are planning to ttc#3!
but i had some shock news tonight!!!!
my dad (48 ) (i'm 22) and his newly wedded wife (40) have ALSO decided to ttc #1 together - she has 3 kids from previous partner and my dad has me n my sis!!!!!
We have kept the fact we plan to try again quiet.... noone in the family knows and i wouldn't say until i fell and was 12 weeks just because of the constant attention and Q's it brings!!!
should i wait? or just stop at the two i've already got? it seems more than a bit strange to have a baby bro/sis and a new baby son/daughter!!!!
i'm also worried that i might put them off trying if/ when i announce i'm preg or trying or even worse... they think i'm trying because they are (i know its silly but i think women always fear that within family or close friends!!)
this is the first time ive seen my dad happy in such a long time!!!! he deserves this chance at fatherhood!! ( just to add my dad lives in france and has done since i was 18mnths old, we've always had contact but didn't see him much in my early years... he's done a lot of growing up and has lived his life; mum n him feel preg very young with me, and i really feel like he deserves a shot at the full time business with the woman he loves!!! )
what do you think? i am so shocked and happy for him i can't think straight at all!!!! i know he wasn't betting on me having any more and i think this is why they announced it!!!
is there anyone in the same situation as me or my dad that could give me a different viewpoint?