i spoke to my mr.man about this and he said that it was 'strange'. i don't see it as odd though? lots of children are brought up by grandparents and other family members and they manage to be balanced and mentally healthy, think that has alot to do with the enviroment they are in too though. i think it would be a nice thing personally, to bebale to see your son in somebody else. lots of people use other peoples sperm/eggs and that child has nothing to do with the 'bio parents' and alot of children are brought up by older people who have gone through other ways of having children than the 'normal' way, they again manage to be mentally stable.
think it's a big commitment to bring upachild, andshe shouldn't do anything drastic right now, but wait till she has had her own time to grieve and has a clear (as clear as a mind can ever be for a mother who lost her child) mind to sit and think about what she's doing.
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