Absolutely flabbergasted

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  1. Lilaala

    Lilaala LTTTC Alumni

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  2. baby.love

    baby.love Guest

    Yeah i'm kinda lost for words at that! Poor woman for losing her son..
    But it doesnt sit right with me!
     
  3. JASMAK

    JASMAK Mom of three

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    weird-o!
     
  4. bigmama

    bigmama Well-Known Member

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    it's sad that the woman lost her son
    but to me this story is wrong on so many levels
     
  5. shortiecjx

    shortiecjx 1 gorgeous son x

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    Hmm thats a bit wrong to me.... Not to mention weird!! x
     
  6. charliebear

    charliebear Mum to AJ & Pumpkin

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    hmmmm...........
     
  8. PrincessSoph

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    jennie_78 Mum to Caitlin, and TTC

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    I feel sorry for the woman losing her son.
    But, what about the child that might be born without parents.
     
  10. jackiea85

    jackiea85 Mum of 2 boys

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    I do really feel sorry for her but I don't think it's the right way to go about it. It's definitely very very weird. How is she going to explain that to the child?? It just seems like she wants a replacement without actually thinking about how the child will feel in the future x
     
  11. missjacey44

    missjacey44 Jacey & Baby Tye

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    Oo.. thats rather strange..
     
  12. mandy81

    mandy81 Well-Known Member

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    I do feel for her losing her son,
    but that's just weird.
     
  13. FEDup1981

    FEDup1981 Mam of two & two angels

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    babe2ooo mum to Jack

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    hmmmm i can see why she would do it, but i dont think i could ever do that, but who knows just sounds a bit funny to me
     
  15. AppleBlossom

    AppleBlossom Guest

    Fair play to her but I wouldn't do it myself
     
  16. Heidi

    Heidi Mummy to two girls

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    just strange...
     
  17. MummyMummy

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    i spoke to my mr.man about this and he said that it was 'strange'. i don't see it as odd though? lots of children are brought up by grandparents and other family members and they manage to be balanced and mentally healthy, think that has alot to do with the enviroment they are in too though. i think it would be a nice thing personally, to bebale to see your son in somebody else. lots of people use other peoples sperm/eggs and that child has nothing to do with the 'bio parents' and alot of children are brought up by older people who have gone through other ways of having children than the 'normal' way, they again manage to be mentally stable.
    think it's a big commitment to bring upachild, andshe shouldn't do anything drastic right now, but wait till she has had her own time to grieve and has a clear (as clear as a mind can ever be for a mother who lost her child) mind to sit and think about what she's doing.

    xXx
     

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