babyno9
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Ok, i apologise now if this is long. Just need some advice really.
I have alway had a feeling that my 8 year old was 'different' but just thought it was the way she is. I try not to compare her with her older sister because i know all children are different but she is REALLY different from my eldest daughter.
My 8 year old has always had a tendency to be clumsy, always falling over her own feet, she's always been abit of a day dreamer too. Now i don't know how to explain this other than she likes to bag up her toys or box them up if she finds an old shoe box for example. I have to regularly sort out her bags of toys and put them in the correct place.
She is a bad eater and just gets worse with age, she hates all fruit and veg, apart from apples. Basically its easier to list the foods she will eat... plain bread (hates butter etc), apples, chicken, lamb, chocolate, biscuits and sweets. I limit the amount of sweets/chocolate she has because its not healthy but as you can see she can't live on the above diet forever. I do give her vitamins and pure apple/orange juice as thats all she will drink. I have tried encouragement and even bribery but she throws wicked tantrums and gets violent.
As above she throws tantrums, not just ordinary tantrums but she will squeal, scream, threaten to hurt my other children, rip things up, throw things and has been known to be violent. The tantrums can be caused by the most simplest of things, ie by not letting her have two biscuits and limiting her to one. But basically anything can set one off.
I have noticed she walks on tiptoes some of the time but is capable of walking with her feet flat on the floor. She also goes through stages of making a noise like she is clearing her throat, kind of like a tic.
She can be forgetful, forever losing things.. toys, books, PE kit, shoes, lunchbag etc. She really hates waiting her turn and that will result in a full blown tantrum. She can not sit still or play quietly which usually results in her waking the baby up. I could be here for ages.
I have looked online at ADHD symptoms and she ticks most, if not all of the boxes. I guess i have never really thought she could have that, i've never really put all her symptoms/querks together but when you do, you can see she does have some problems.
The thing is though the school has never mentioned anything about her behaviour, only that she day dreams alot and is behind so has extra help. She does get picked on about her behaviour and the way she is though by the other kids.
Anyway, i have an appointment for my daughter with the GP next week but i have a feeling i won't be taken seriously because she is like that.
I have alway had a feeling that my 8 year old was 'different' but just thought it was the way she is. I try not to compare her with her older sister because i know all children are different but she is REALLY different from my eldest daughter.
My 8 year old has always had a tendency to be clumsy, always falling over her own feet, she's always been abit of a day dreamer too. Now i don't know how to explain this other than she likes to bag up her toys or box them up if she finds an old shoe box for example. I have to regularly sort out her bags of toys and put them in the correct place.
She is a bad eater and just gets worse with age, she hates all fruit and veg, apart from apples. Basically its easier to list the foods she will eat... plain bread (hates butter etc), apples, chicken, lamb, chocolate, biscuits and sweets. I limit the amount of sweets/chocolate she has because its not healthy but as you can see she can't live on the above diet forever. I do give her vitamins and pure apple/orange juice as thats all she will drink. I have tried encouragement and even bribery but she throws wicked tantrums and gets violent.
As above she throws tantrums, not just ordinary tantrums but she will squeal, scream, threaten to hurt my other children, rip things up, throw things and has been known to be violent. The tantrums can be caused by the most simplest of things, ie by not letting her have two biscuits and limiting her to one. But basically anything can set one off.
I have noticed she walks on tiptoes some of the time but is capable of walking with her feet flat on the floor. She also goes through stages of making a noise like she is clearing her throat, kind of like a tic.
She can be forgetful, forever losing things.. toys, books, PE kit, shoes, lunchbag etc. She really hates waiting her turn and that will result in a full blown tantrum. She can not sit still or play quietly which usually results in her waking the baby up. I could be here for ages.
I have looked online at ADHD symptoms and she ticks most, if not all of the boxes. I guess i have never really thought she could have that, i've never really put all her symptoms/querks together but when you do, you can see she does have some problems.
The thing is though the school has never mentioned anything about her behaviour, only that she day dreams alot and is behind so has extra help. She does get picked on about her behaviour and the way she is though by the other kids.
Anyway, i have an appointment for my daughter with the GP next week but i have a feeling i won't be taken seriously because she is like that.