SeaofSerenity
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Long story short, I was adopted when I was 9 days old by my parents. My birthparents were young and not ready. I've found and met both of them since and maintain relationships with them as well. (My birthfather was the one that actually officiated my wedding. 
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But I see future drama here. My husband and I will be moving to Austin in a few months and will possibly be pregnant by then. I worry about my mother seeing it as moving away and towards my birthmother (who lives outside Austin) instead of my husband wanting to go to UTAustin. My brother says that is why.
Also, when I do eventually get pregnant, I won't be able to go to my mother fr advice about anything, since there was a reason she and my dad adopted my brother and I. I can for baby advice, but nothing with pregnancy. I'm worried how that will go down and everything.
It's uch a specific situation, I don't expect too many people to come out of the woodwork with the same situation ,but any general advice would be great. My mother is already gonna break down like crazy with me just moving out of town. XP
)But I see future drama here. My husband and I will be moving to Austin in a few months and will possibly be pregnant by then. I worry about my mother seeing it as moving away and towards my birthmother (who lives outside Austin) instead of my husband wanting to go to UTAustin. My brother says that is why.
Also, when I do eventually get pregnant, I won't be able to go to my mother fr advice about anything, since there was a reason she and my dad adopted my brother and I. I can for baby advice, but nothing with pregnancy. I'm worried how that will go down and everything.
It's uch a specific situation, I don't expect too many people to come out of the woodwork with the same situation ,but any general advice would be great. My mother is already gonna break down like crazy with me just moving out of town. XP
