Advice Badly Needed :$

[Karuto]

Hey girls.. I found out I was pregnant in July and on the 14th of September, at 8 weeks, I started bleeding lightly. Went to A&E got bloods and a scan. The scan showed nothing.. no hearbeat, no foetus.. nothing. Midwifes presummed I had miscalculated. I know I hadn't. I would have at least 8 weeks. Went back two days later bleeding still lightly, and my bloods had increased, but not significantly enough for the midwife to believe it to be a viable pregnancy. I was suppose to go back, but as the bleeding got a little heavier so I was upset and resigned myself to a miscarrige. The bleeding lasted bout 8 days, one day it was particularly heavy the rest it was medium to light/spotting.

So just short of a month later, 4th of October, I started bleeding (I believe it to be my period) It wasn't like my normal period (I know that after miscarrige periods can vary) but I have been pregnant before, and they didn't change at all. I usually start with a gush.. and it started with spotting and had one day it was particularly heavy. It lasted over 8 days, most of them being spotting. I never had sore boobs.. the tell tale sign I have when I know i'm getting my period.

And now.. here we are 19th of October and I had started to spot again. I have no other reason to unless it was my period but less than two weeks ago I had one, and normally they are known for being up to a week late. Never have they been early. And yet no sore boobs, Not since my pregnancy. I have been cramping on and off mildly since miscarrige aswell.. something I don't get with periods either.

I had taken a test last week, it came up negative, however it was noted that I don't produce a lot of the hormone HPT's are meant to pick up.

If I hadn't infact miscarried I would be 13 weeks today.

I'm sorry for the long winded story.. but I am at a total loss.
Utterly confused and would appreciate so advice.
Thanks girls x

 

[angelkatelyn]

I'd speak to ur doctor hun and see if he can refer u for a scan. I no its prob something u dont want but it will put ur mind at rest either way x

 

[Callie-xoxox]

I would ask for a scan to.
And if not a scan then tell them what is going on and ask for a answer.

 

[Karuto]

Yeah, was planning to get a check up.. I just don't know what kinda news I want.

 

[DanielleM]

Hi you could be bleeding still if you did not pass everything, if there is still some tissue in your uterus, you may need a D&C, you need to get this checked out as soon as possible as it could lead to infection, etc. Hope it all works out ok for you. x

 

[angelkatelyn]

I think to be totally honest hun it wont make a difference what news u get as if its still wat happened before you'll be going through it again and if u r pregnant it'll be confusing and scary this time round to get ur head around it. I hope whatever it is it puts ur mind at rest so u can move on either way. I think to be honest its just ur body being cruel x

 

[Sophiiie]

aww hun you must be feeling such a mix of emotions right now.
definitely go to your doctor or the hospital, I hope they manage to give you some answers x