advice from ladies with BFP's please - Congrats!!

[Mervs Mum]

fingers crossed!!!

 

[bird24]

Nicky just wanted to say - i read all your other threads and msgs about how you got preg and telling your parents and stuff.....have you told them yet?

If not i hope they react better than you expect, your doing a very brave thing and i thinks its brilliant !! i was really hoping you were gonna make that decision - well done chick!!

xx

 

[nikky0907]

Oh,thank you for supporting me...It was a very hard decision to make but fate somehow did it for me and you can't mess with fate!

I haven't told my parents yet.
I told my friends and they cried and told me that if that's what I want they'll be there for me,same with my sister who once again proved to be the best person ever.She was very excited and told me that she'll do anything for me and Bumpy.She even said that she will be with me when I tell my parents.
I haven't seen them in 5 months,I spoke to them twice.Their parenting is to give us money and send us away.Buying me a big apartment I don't have to visit them.I would give anything to know that they'll be there for me no matter what but they won't.I see how close you guys are with your parents and it makes me wanna cry...
I also have to tell the father.I spoke to him today and we are meeting tomorrow.Wish me luck!

And I'm wishing you lots of luck with your BFP!

 

[Mervs Mum]

Good luck Nikky xxx

 

[sleepinbeauty]

good luck to the OP, I hope it goes well for you.

Nikky--good luck to you, you are so mcuh braver than I am!

 

[nikky0907]

well,thank you but I don't think it's true...

 

[bird24]

Nicky good luck and at the end of the day you have your friends and your sister who are going to support you 100%, if your parents choose not to then thats their loss really as they will be the ones missing out on being grandparents, but if they really arent supportive then i wouldnt worry too much as its pointless having them around anyway....your sister and friends will be fab!!
xxxx

 

[nikky0907]

thank you so much.I do think that I'll be fine,it just makes me sad when I see what a wonderful grandparent unit you guys have...I grew up without grandparents so I didn't want my kid to be the same...

 

[bird24]

you never know you might be surprised and if your not and they act the way you think they are gonna then you should tell them how you feel....good luck

wow sunday cant come soon enough for me now.....i'm dying to know....
been feeling starving all day today even we i've eaten....this morning i woke up so hungry i felt sick....fingers crossed....been having headaches all the time at the moment too

xx

 

[Ann-Marie]

I can't wait either !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[bird24]

Your profile pic makes me laugh everytime i see it annmarie!!

Hopefully i'll be doing this happy dance on sunday

I'm so bored at work and getting a BFP is all i can think about at the moment!!

roll on friday - then its the weekend!! xx

 

[bird24]

Still having really really sore and tender boobs....back ache doesnt seem to be as bad.....soooooo wanna know if i am
Its the boobs that are making me think i am as they have never felt this sore, its like my nipples and behind them are really sore
i wanna test so bad but i dont wanna see bfn.....

 

[Ann-Marie]

I think you should doooooo it

 

[xclairex]

do test lol

 

[bird24]

hey

i did a cheapie and it didnt work.....red smugged all over the screen bit....aaahhhhhhhh couldnt see a line underneath it so dunno if that means bfn or not as it was f**ked - excuse my french but its well annoying!!

might do clearblue on friday morning now d'oh

xx

 

[Ann-Marie]

Oh No !!!!!!

 

[Ann-Marie]

Sorry that was so short and sweet, I was getting the kids ready for bed, and there was an emergency in the bathroom !!!

That's just bloody typical.... bet you feel like someones got it in for you !!
One more day.... I'll be on here all day tomorrow, waiting for your result

 

[xclairex]

test with clear blue bird lolx

 

[bird24]

Hey Annemarie - you have changed your funny pic....oh no - that used to cheer me up seeing that lol

Yep gonna probably try tomorrow morning as i've taken my last pill today...normally come on a couple of days later....having lots of twinges and cramping today

How you feeling claire? any sign of af?

Thanks for the support ladies xx

 

[xclairex]

no not yet hun not yet fingers crossed so ur testing 2 mo then x