orange-sox
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Hello everyone ![hi :hi: :hi:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/hi.gif)
Just thought I'd make myself known to everyone as I imagine I will be waiting around here for a long time!
Basically I just wanted a bit of advice from you all, how have you all got on with your other halfs and the "When will we try for a baby" conversation?
I am driving myself insane, and twisting myself in knots over this. I would love to start our family soon, and as I'm sure you can guess, my other half isnt quite sure... he's not said a definate yes or no.. more of a "when we have more money", or "when the timing's right".
I'd rather just be given a straight yes or no, or at least a, yes in a few years... then maybe I could concentrate my efforts on something else, like errrrr knitting?
... I'm just sick of being messed around with the whole well maybe we wont use protection this time thing.
I mean I wouldn't mind, but this month I thought it might be our month, and my other half suddenly blurted out "You'd better not be" like it would be my fault if I was pregnant... but alas, no it wasnt our month...
for me this morning ![Cry :cry: :cry:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/cry.gif)
What I can't figure out is the wayu he's behaving... last night he was all excited, and we were talking baby names and such (not getting ahead of ourselves, more just actually having a talk about babies rather than an arguement), then this morning when I got my bfn he said "oh thank god". If he'd have stuck with that, I could've just about coped, but no, he then changed his mind and has acted all disappointed and upset all day that we're not pregnant, I am soooooo confused!
ARGH!!!![hissy :hissy: :hissy:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/hissy.gif)
![hi :hi: :hi:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/hi.gif)
Just thought I'd make myself known to everyone as I imagine I will be waiting around here for a long time!
Basically I just wanted a bit of advice from you all, how have you all got on with your other halfs and the "When will we try for a baby" conversation?
I am driving myself insane, and twisting myself in knots over this. I would love to start our family soon, and as I'm sure you can guess, my other half isnt quite sure... he's not said a definate yes or no.. more of a "when we have more money", or "when the timing's right".
I'd rather just be given a straight yes or no, or at least a, yes in a few years... then maybe I could concentrate my efforts on something else, like errrrr knitting?
![ROFL :rofl: :rofl:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/rofl.gif)
I mean I wouldn't mind, but this month I thought it might be our month, and my other half suddenly blurted out "You'd better not be" like it would be my fault if I was pregnant... but alas, no it wasnt our month...
![bfn :bfn: :bfn:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/bfn2.gif)
![Cry :cry: :cry:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/cry.gif)
What I can't figure out is the wayu he's behaving... last night he was all excited, and we were talking baby names and such (not getting ahead of ourselves, more just actually having a talk about babies rather than an arguement), then this morning when I got my bfn he said "oh thank god". If he'd have stuck with that, I could've just about coped, but no, he then changed his mind and has acted all disappointed and upset all day that we're not pregnant, I am soooooo confused!
ARGH!!!
![hissy :hissy: :hissy:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/hissy.gif)