Advice please ladies.......

[AbbynChloe]

Help!!

Long story short - i've gone out on a few dates with a guy I work with.

Good points
He is smart, a devoted Christian, good listener, funny - likes me?? knows of dd and doesn't mind. no crazy exes, no desserted children. has a job and an all round good good person

but...... i have no idea where my heart lies, there is no "spark" i'm not crazily attracted to him and.......... I can't help but compare to FOB who ok is a first class t**t but literally my heart skipped when I saw him and the was well

lol - i'm making myself laugh here!!

ok my question - what do I do ladies. I have Chloe, she deserves a good solid father figure??? but who's to say he would be a father figure??

I AM CONFUSED

do I continue to see him???

 

[Ginger84]

Thats a toughie! Im all for a dependable man who will treat you right etc but if the spark is not there then in the long run the relationship might fizzle out. But you never know till you try, he might surprise you!

Not much help sorry!

 

[whoops]

I don't think there's any harm in continuing to see him for a little while to see if a spark grows.

It'd be different if you were planning on introducing him to Chloe, or like, marrying him or something

 

[AbbynChloe]

I don't know what i am expecting really.

One thing that has become obviously clear - i'm pretty messed up from a relationship point of view. I have many "quirks" that I think I need to work on.

but a few dates won't kill me............ i hope??!!?? lol

 

[jessrabbit]

I agree, go on a few more and see how it goes, some of my greatest loves were friends first and grew from there. Good luck x

 

[frankyzw]

Give him a chance and just take it slow. Dating is time to get to know someone better and then you can decide. Good luck!

 

[KNWilson]

I agree with the other ladies I would give it a little more time and see what happens.

 

[littlekitten8]

I agree. Give it a few more dates and see what happens. I have to say I wasn't instantly drawn to my ex but after a few dates he grew on me lol.