Advice please!!!

[Tricks26]

Please could I get some advice from all you wonderful ladies out there!!

This is my 4th pregnancy( I still don't have any babies though!!)

I found out that I was pregnant for the 4th time two weeks ago so Im just 6 weeks pregnant so really early!! I have never got passed 7 weeks before I have always misscarried at 5/6 weeks any way before when I m/c I had a bit of pain then started bleeding properly like fresh blood, except for the last one which resulted in an ectopic!!!
But this morning I have woken up went to the loo and there is alot of pinky mucus?? what is this is this normal/bad or am I misscarring again please any advice would be really important to me thanks in advance!!!!

 

[suzan]

Dear,
If I was you I would call directly my doctor coz as I can see, u already passed thru different miscarriages, so directly seek professional help.
Sorry I just dont know what to tell you.

Good luck!

 

[so-optimystic]

TRICKS,
I unfortunatly don't have any advise either, just wanted to wish you luck, but I will ditto what Suzan said....GL!

 

[jo27]

Sorry i don't know either, keeping my fingers crossed for you hope everyting is ok

 

[Tricks26]

thanks for your well wishes im going to doctors today I will keep you posted and thank you again!!!

 

[Mynxie]

hoping that everything is ok

 

[Wobbles]

Hi Tricks

How did it go at the doctors?

We had a terrible ordeal with chemical pregnancies & an ectopic. With my current pregnancy I started with light pink/red spotting and of course that was it I thought it was happening again but no blood came no pad needed etc. so it is common for this to happen & not be a MC. I hope it isn't hun & they scanned you for reassurance.

 

[Tricks26]

Hi guys ,

Well here is an update for you went to the hospital on Wednesday for reassurance and they found nothing in my uterus so for the 4th time i have had another MC although I have been doing some research as its the only way Im coping and I really do feel that it was a chemical pregnancy !!! noone will give me any answers and I really feel like Im stuck at cross roads because I can concieve!! just can't keep it any one got any advice really sad !!! and don't know what to do?

 

[jo27]

Ah so sorry for you, have you had any tests yet? I know it's really hard but try to stay positive like you say you can conceive, hopefully it's something simple that can be put right. x

 

[Tricks26]

thank you!!
And Im not giving up we already have an appointment to see MC specialist at end of Nov so just a waiting game now really thanks again everyone. xxxx

 

[jo27]

good on ya! not long till your appointment hun

 

[Iwantone!!!]

good luck hunni ihope they help u out so u can get the stupport u need for when u have a healthy pregs (which u will do ) all the bestxxxxx

 

[ElliesMum]

Sorry for your loss. Good luck with your appt in Nov.

 

[Tricks26]

And thank you everyone you have all been a great support network!!! big hugs to all!!!!

 

[Wobbles]

Hi guys ,

Well here is an update for you went to the hospital on Wednesday for reassurance and they found nothing in my uterus so for the 4th time i have had another MC although I have been doing some research as its the only way Im coping and I really do feel that it was a chemical pregnancy !!! noone will give me any answers and I really feel like Im stuck at cross roads because I can concieve!! just can't keep it any one got any advice really sad !!! and don't know what to do?

Don't let them fob you off!!! We went to see our consultant in Stoke where our ordeals started and he said "nothing we can do" WHAT ... we had tried fragmin (blood thinners) for a borderline + for lupus and that was it? I had mentioned the poss of low hcg and seen it can be started from O day apparantly according the early pregnancy unit nurses that was too expensive! Anyway back to the nob consultant we ended up telling him what we wanted - we knew we were going to move in time and tbh I think from that day thats all I wanted to do and considered stressed mmyself out money wise wanting to go private.

Have they done any tests? This being a big important step!

Have they confirmed a pregnancy? (docs or hosp) .... I was made to feel *mad* sometimes that I sat at home and dealt with it myself in a corner.

As far as support goes the hospitals arent really the best people to lean on ... They care for the period your in the room (if your lucky - mine got bored) but thats quite often the case. friends & tyoru partner need to be your support but to be h onest I found the support through strangers on another website before creating BabyandBump ... couldn't have asked for a group of more caring girls.

Rambling and may sound blunt but thats my experience in short. I answered your other post too Here any time either on threads or PM ... add me to MSN if you like. Honestly don't mind.

Just one thing and easy for me to say I thought I was doomed NEVER thought I would be a Mummy but I believe my problems went back further just I was blind to it ... but I got my dream. Stay strong as you can think positive and believe that one day you will be a Mummy just some of us have longer journeys and to my discust more heartbreaking ones.

x x

 

[Tricks26]

Thanks for your kind words Wobble!!!

I won't ever give up trying i know in my heart I am destined to be a mummy, I have been around children all my live and work with them every day and I don't belive it would be such a cruel world as to not let me raise my own child!!!
All of this has made me a stronger person so in turn I will be a better parent I hope!!!
This is a truly wonderful site and I have found much comfort using it over the last couple of weeks I think I'm hooked and will be here for the duration, the highs and the lows so I look forward to making lots of lovely new friends along the way!!!!! ((hugs to all)))!!

 

[Wobbles]

Your attitude shows a fight ... good on you :thumpup:

Here wishing you lots of luck that your dream comes true sooner than later