Advice please :)

[Bundle of joy]

Just curious to see if anyone had successfully had a pregnancy after a loss and how long did it take to conceieve again after the loss. I only had 1 week of knowing i was pregnant until i lost. Just have no hope in getting pregnant now or even if i do im terrified ill lose it x

 

[Trying4first1]

So sorry that you find yourself here. No one can say how long it will take. Like you I lost my first at only knowing for a week as lost very early at just over 5 weeks. That was in December and we conceived again in February so only had 2 periods after. Unfortunately that one ended in MC too and I had a D and C at 9 weeks. So I am wondering the same as you, how long will it take?, will I loose the next one too? after two losses already. The hardest thing is there is no answer it's a case of waiting it out I'm afraid. I'm sure you will be fine as early losses are very common. It's once they start recurring is when the alarm bells go. However even then lots of women go on the have healthy pregnancies. Wishing you all the best. Take time for yourself xx

 

[Bundle of joy]

Thanks for your reply. It does scare me very much, i would be heart broken if it happened again i am very sorry for you. I have no idea when i ovulate anymore? X

 

[tillyttc]

I Had a loss end of January last year we took feb off tried in March with success my little girl was born on the 25th nov , with the one I lost I only new for a week also , we agreed that if I didn't catch in the March then we wouldn't try any more as each time I got a blank test I was getting upset good luck xxx

 

[Trying4first1]

It is a very scary time bundle of joy. I was so devastated that it happened again as didn't think it would, feel so stupid for thinking that. We have just been very unfortunate as only 4% of women MC twice in a row someone told me.
Thank you, I am sorry for your loss also. It's such a difficult time.
In regards to your ovulation, from my experience I didn't ovulate the first cycle after my first MC as never got a positive OPK. With the second no idea as wasn't allowed to try again that month so didn't use opks. I have heard of women ovulating straight away though 😀 x

 

[Bundle of joy]

Its a hard time, the worse time of my life infact. Even though i had the excitment for just the 1 week it was amazing. I have a 2 year old now and the pregnancy with her took around 9-10 months to get there and that felt like a life time. The pregnancy i have just recently had i had all the symptoms, went for a scan and they couldnt find anything, had bloods done and they had dropped completly from my last set. Took a good few hours for it to sink in that i had lost my little seed but as soon as it did i wae heart broken. Didnt tell anyone apart from OH so family/friends just thought i was being funny with them during that week someone even asked me what my problem was! I have only recently felt better in my self. I hope we all have some good news soon. A loss is the worse thing ever xx

 

[flou]

so sorry for your losses. It can really take a while to conceive again or happen next month there is no way of knowing. I have had two losses and each time it took us a different length of time to conceive. The first time it took 19 months to get our first bfp, then we mc after 6 weeks. Another 11 months ttc then a second 6 week loss. We saw a fs who thought we had no problems with fertility but a possible problem with recurrent mc but they wouldn't investigate until I experienced another one. I felt like I was ttc to have another mc. After 7 months ttc I got my third bfp. This one stuck and I had my gorgeous little boy. From the time we started ttc until Arthur was born took us 4 years. It was the hardest four years of my life but he was worth all that pain. I hope you get your rainbow soon. Good luck xxx

 

[Bundle of joy]

Its so sad. I feel for everyone whos ever been in this situation. I bled for 4/5 days and it was very much like a period. Should i take that as my period and presume i ovulate 2 weeks after? X

 

[Hevalouaddict]

I mc'd twins at 12 and 14weeks dec 10 and fell pregnant April 11 with my daughter

 

[Dollybird]

Sorry for your loss I had an ectopic in pregnancy in July 2012. Wasn't allowed to ttc for 3 months after due to the methotrexate but we fell preggo the first cycle that we tried again in October 2012 with our son. Just had a Mmc in April there and still not had af although I've been doing opks on odd days and had a positive today so debating just trying again without waiting for af xxx

 

[Kris725]

so sorry for your losses. It can really take a while to conceive again or happen next month there is no way of knowing. I have had two losses and each time it took us a different length of time to conceive. The first time it took 19 months to get our first bfp, then we mc after 6 weeks. Another 11 months ttc then a second 6 week loss. We saw a fs who thought we had no problems with fertility but a possible problem with recurrent mc but they wouldn't investigate until I experienced another one. I felt like I was ttc to have another mc. After 7 months ttc I got my third bfp. This one stuck and I had my gorgeous little boy. From the time we started ttc until Arthur was born took us 4 years. It was the hardest four years of my life but he was worth all that pain. I hope you get your rainbow soon. Good luck xxx

Thanks for sharing your story-This gives me hope that my third pregnancy will stick, still trying to get pregnant after two losses. I also went a long time between getting pregnant, 15 months and now it's been 10 months since the last. I feel the exact same way about how you said it felt like waiting for a 3rd miscarriage. I'm so nervous I'll lose my next one, but doctors won't do much for me until I have a third. Congrats on your rainbow baby boy!

 

[flou]

I hope its third time lucky for you to and you don't have to wait too much longer for your rainbow!

 

[Trying4first1]

Its a hard time, the worse time of my life infact. Even though i had the excitment for just the 1 week it was amazing. I have a 2 year old now and the pregnancy with her took around 9-10 months to get there and that felt like a life time. The pregnancy i have just recently had i had all the symptoms, went for a scan and they couldnt find anything, had bloods done and they had dropped completly from my last set. Took a good few hours for it to sink in that i had lost my little seed but as soon as it did i wae heart broken. Didnt tell anyone apart from OH so family/friends just thought i was being funny with them during that week someone even asked me what my problem was! I have only recently felt better in my self. I hope we all have some good news soon. A loss is the worse thing ever xx

It is the worst thing in the world. We also didn't tell anyone about our first early loss, only my mum knew that was all. Even though it's so early it's still hard and you feel completely gutted. Let's pray that we are blessed very soon with our rainbow babies xx