Is anyone worried about baby blues? i know you can't say much on something that hasnt happened yet and i dont mean to sound morbid but i think my family and ex OH's family will send me into depression because the way they talk now i feel like im never going to get to see my baby or have her to myself..ever. at the hospital on tues morning i was saying we'll need to get a camera sorted for pics as my mum said if she cant be there she wants lots of pictures! and ex's mum turns round to me and says 'why wont she be there? the minute you go into labor im going to be in the waiting area and not leaving til i've had a good hold of the baby!' i wanted to smack her in the face, because i've spefically said i dont want ANYONE except ex at the hospital as i knwo as soon as we get baby home it'll be like pass the parcel and i want time with her to myself and himself. is there anyway i can politely tell them to f*** off it's MY baby you can hold her when IM done holding her etc..