I'm so irked with my husband. He doesn't offer me any help and anytime I ask for it he acts like I'm putting him out and gets angry with me. I had a c-section so have been trying to heal from that and yet haven't been able to because someone has to take care of LO and he won't so that just leaves me. He is constantly complaining of the fact that I haven't picked up yet and keeps demanding me to do more and more, yet he doesn't make any effort at all. Then almost 2 weeks ago he had a hemorrhoid removed and since then he is always acting like he can't manage to lift a finger because he is in too much pain. But yet I would get up 3-4 times a night and take care of LO during the day, and go grocery shopping all the while in extreme pain, and knew I was doing too much but I had no choice. I have been having off and on fever which leads me to believe I may have an infection, yet he doesn't care, and keeps demanding more. My mom and dad came out this past week to help and I managed to get a good rest then, and they were furious to see the horrible condition I was in and how wasn't getting any help at all. My parents left yesterday so last night was my first night having to take care of LO in a week so was really tired as it was. Fed her at 9 but didn't get to sleep till about 11 since had to wash and make up her bottles and then pump as well. Then to get back up at 1 to feed her again. And she didn't settle back down till almost 230. She woke up again at 530 only 30 min before my husband was due to get up anyway for work, so I asked him to take care of this feeding for me so I could try and get a little bit of sleep. He did it but not without a huge complaint and yelling at me telling me its my job to get the night feedings. And that we need to have a serious talk about this blah blah blah. I'm just tired of having such a selfish husband who doesn't even care that his wife is making herself sick because of the lack of help. And now he has started complaining again and harassing me about cleaning. I barely even have enough time to eat let alone clean. Yesterday the only meal that I had was dinner and that was just a small sandwich. Today all I've had is 2 eggs for breakfast and it's going to be dinner time soon. And yet I'm supposed to take care of everything else as well. I'm sorry for the down post, I just need to vent to someone. I just wish he would care about someone besides himself.