All together frustrated..

[AEM1803]

So yesterday night showed her ugly face.. and i got so upset I started crying..
My OH actually got mad at me for being upset
I have been trying to explain to him how I feel.. but he just gets mad and frustrated at me.. like im not allowed to feel this way..
I cant help but feel like im not getting pregnant because of the surgery.. and the reason I had surgery was because of my body
We have been trying so hard to get pregnant after loosing my little bean.. and still nothing!

I understand that he is frustrated too and he probably feels like its his fault.. but how am I supposed to handle my OH, the 1 person who is always supposed to be there to support me.. always getting mad at me and making me feel worse about this already horrible situation?

 

[Brookegarrett]

I'm sorryhun guys have a lot of problem with dealing with feelings.. They don't kno how to exactly show concern andnot feel offended.. I hope u get urlil bundle of joy soon

 

[Jenni2362]

I completely understand! Men just see things differently. I had a miscarriage in January and immediately got back on the horse and have been trying for 6 months now. Recently everyone around me is getting pregnant... including my sister. My OH gets frustrated when I get upset about other people being preggar's. It's not that I'm not happy for them... just don't want to always hear about it because it makes me sad. We are going to see a fertility specialist so I'm trying to keep my chin up. I've just decided not to let him know I'm upset... it's not worth the frustration! Good luck!